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Boyfriend wants a second child

Posted by on May. 3, 2013 at 8:36 PM
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Our daughter is almost 21 months and he wants to start trying again. We just recently got back together have a hiatus (on my part). I think it's too soon. What do you think? 

by on May. 3, 2013 at 8:36 PM
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kels1023
by on May. 3, 2013 at 8:37 PM
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I agree. I would wait until you guys are stable again.
MaNdYbEaR2010
by on May. 3, 2013 at 8:37 PM
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If you think it's too soon, it's too soon.
Kelsey89
by on May. 3, 2013 at 8:40 PM
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Quoting kels1023:

I agree. I would wait until you guys are stable again.

That's what I was thinking, but he has baby fever lol 

k9l1c5
by Ruby Member on May. 3, 2013 at 8:43 PM
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Yeah I would wait if you think it's too soon.
lenoxclan
by Lenox on May. 3, 2013 at 8:43 PM

I'd definitely wait until I knew if the relationship was going to last and where it was going.

Kelsey89
by on May. 3, 2013 at 8:45 PM


Quoting lenoxclan:

I'd definitely wait until I knew if the relationship was going to last and where it was going.

Very true!

MomofKJI
by on May. 3, 2013 at 10:23 PM

I would wait. My 3 are about four years apart and sometimes that can get a little crazy. If you think that it is to soon chances are its to soon.

GirlWSemiAuto
by on May. 3, 2013 at 10:29 PM

 I would tell him that it will need to wait until your relationship is stable once more. I'd want to know that you're both committed for life before bringing another child into the situation.

PeaceMuch
by Kali on May. 3, 2013 at 11:10 PM
Tell him to put a ring on it! Lol
But seriously if you feel it's too soon, it probably is and it would be best to wait. You have time. GL!
jojo_star
by on May. 4, 2013 at 12:34 AM

If you think it is still too soon, then it is. Don't have a child because that is what he wants. 

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