I was married for a year and a half. After a rocky year where he would constantly put me down, tell me that my concerns were irrelevant and if I said I was unhappy he told me to "go cry about it" and otherwise was negative and borderline emotionally abusive, I decided to end it. I took my daughter (he's not the biological father) and moved in with my parents. He wanted to stay a part of my dd's life and I was OK with it since her biological father ran out long ago. I told him upfront that if he tried to use her as a pawn or tried to use her to punish me, I would stop. When I got the remainder of my stuff out and refused to continue rehashing what had happened, he stopped seeing her, sending her messages through me, or having any other contact with her. This includes telling me happy mothers day but not her happy birthday (they fell on the same day this year). She has just, after 2 months,stopped asking why he doesn't call or see her. And now he wants to see her again. He says its my fault he didn't see her and he didn't tell her happy birthday because he was mad I bought her a bike earlier this spring. At this point I would honestly just not have him in her life since he pulled this. Am I wrong?
on Jun. 16, 2013 at 12:16 AM