So my middle son has autism and hes doing very well but his classes are very expensive. I cannot justify spending a few grand on one day when that money can go a long way for his programs. I was thinking of having an intimate beach ceremony and then everyone back to our house for a bbq party/reception. We would have all the classic bbq food, and have lights and a tent out in the backyard. Basically like a relaxed party. ..does anyone have any ideas or pics thst i can do? My DF wants a big wedding so i have to presade him
or i was thinkin of flying to vegas getting married then coming back home for an open house/reception for everyone else..he might go for tht bc alot of his family lives in vegas ..but i feel we would still be spending good money going to vegas as well so it kinda defeats the purpose idk, i still want a special day without the $$$$$$ involded... Thanks!!!
p.s my 3rd idea was that were closing on our new house in a couple of weeks, i thought we could invite everyone over to our place to host our first xmas party at the new house and i thought we could sneak surprise thrm with a wedding! Our new place has a beautiful fireplace that we could get married in front of and that way all our family would be there and theyd be dressed up and wed already have food and drinks there