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Is this selfish? ~ tmi oral sex related~

Posted by on Jun. 27, 2013 at 11:24 PM
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I have no idea how this topic came up but a friend and I were out to dinner last night and somehow the subject of oral sex came up and she was telling me she was one of those people who enjoyed receiving it but never gave it in return. I found that kind of selfish and way more than I needed to know about her lol. What do you think? I personally don't like giving or receiving but that's me. I also think if you expect something like that the decent thing to do is to give in return. Sorry I was thinking about this all day and had to see what others thought.
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mama-smurf
by Silver Member on Jun. 27, 2013 at 11:26 PM
Idk. I hate it altogether.
frndlyfn
by Silver Member on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:42 AM

My guy and i have an agreement when it comes to this topic and we do not tell others what that agreement is.  Nothing is forced or obligated for any part of relationship.

beadingmom17
by Silver Member on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:44 AM
Ditto

Quoting mama-smurf:

Idk. I hate it altogether.
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a06z08mama
by Bronze Member on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:59 AM
Its an even thing for us. It may seem like one gets it more than the other. But it pans out to both of us being satisfied at the end of the week. And our relationship isn't based on just our sex life. Even if oral didn't happen it wouldn't change anything
PeaceMuch
by Kali on Jun. 28, 2013 at 2:07 AM
It doesn't seem selfish to me.
mama2b100808
by Mandy on Jun. 28, 2013 at 10:02 AM

Idk to me I think it is only fair. I didn't do it when I was younger to anyone. My husband is the only one I ever done that too. (many reasons why I didn't do it to my others partners) 

momto3boys85
by on Jun. 28, 2013 at 11:07 AM

Ditto

Quoting frndlyfn:

My guy and i have an agreement when it comes to this topic and we do not tell others what that agreement is.  Nothing is forced or obligated for any part of relationship.


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RheaF
by Silver Member on Jun. 28, 2013 at 11:12 AM
This, for us it is not something we keep score about.

Quoting momto3boys85:

Ditto

Quoting frndlyfn:

My guy and i have an agreement when it comes to this topic and we do not tell others what that agreement is.  Nothing is forced or obligated for any part of relationship.


Kisaki.
by New Member on Jun. 28, 2013 at 11:14 AM
i think it is selfish
and the girls who think its not selfish
lets see u if ur man want just receive and never wanna give u
u all gonna be like "he is so selfish" right?

i dont like receiving anyway just love to give
caseysmommy8911
by on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:27 PM

I have never given. Im a frady cat. What if i did it wrong? Lol but i also do NOT expect getting  it from my man.

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