So maby i am a little old fashioned or something but it pisses me off when a SAHM doesn't clean the house because that is not her job, her job is to "just take care of the kids". Well who's job is it then? My husband's that works his butt off at work everyday to provide for me and the fam? I dont think so!! He does the outdoor work and helps with the kids because they are his to but for the most part i do EVERYTHING inside. Yes i still spend plenty of time with my kids (2 under 2 and bf'ing) but they do have alone time and naptime that i work with, my older one also helps out. Just went to my sis-in-laws and her house was a disaster well guess what she does all day while "just taking care of the kids" she is the computer or watching tv alot of the time. IT IS NOT THAT DANG HARD TO CLEAN A LITTLE BIT A DAY!!!!! Who else agrees this job should be for you vs hubbs (if a SAHM) working moms have it different so i think chores should be done different then.
BTW: I am not talking about dishes and some toys lying around kinda clean (i always have toys lying around and my house is not perfect) but pure nastiness.
EDIT: For the people that say i shouldnt care and it's none of my bussiness how nasty a house is, well think about there children it is to the point that i have thought about calling CPS so yes it is my bussiness if kids suffer because of someone being lazy