I'm new to the site but really excited to be sharing with other preg moms and receiving support because at this moment i feel SO alone. About a month ago the father of my child began acting different in the relationship on 1 or 2 occasions he stooped coming home and recently found out he was texting other girls. The times he did not come back he would tell me that he was spending time with his family (this is partially true but not entirely because I don't believe the entire time he was with his family). Anyways, I feel really vulnerable and I don't know what to think or do and I'm trying to decide of the best thing is to do it alone. He told me he wants to change and work out our relationship but yesterday when we were at our doc's app to find out the gender (smh!!) his phone kept going off and it turns out he was talking to one of his old female friends from high school. In the conversation he told her he wanted to leave, she asked him if he was talking about the relationship, he said yes and that the only reason why he was staying was because of the baby, then she asked him if he was happy and he said sometimes.
I told him I wasn't going to trick myself into pretending the relationship was working and that I didnt want to keep going through the same thing and he insisted he wanted to work it out and that he wanted to get back to the way we used to.
I just don't want to continue to stress over this situation and I really am exhausted. I dont think he's the same person an i dont understand why he can't be honest and just tell me for once and for all. He mentioned he didnt want to live with the fact that he left his baby, but i don't want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with me.
Any Suggestions? (sorry it is so long, I really needed to vent)