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As a young mom i never knew the battles i would face with my children, i knew it would be this hard but a scream sobbing 3 yr old who wants nanny to cook her dinner and not mommy? Who knew,right? But as my days go on and see them grow i cant beileve something so amazing was created. As blessed and thankful as i am to have them, som days i just shake my head... Others all i can say is it beer time yet?! I never realized what bridges we would have to cross,such as my 3 month old being born early and has been sick.(thrush for the thrid time) or things id never seen before.(pearl cyst?!? 0_o) but on my adventure in life, motherhood, being a wife, and becoming an adult i have realized that im not alone. I may feel that way while hubby is at work and i have two screaming boobing little girls, a messy house, dishes, laundry, and cooking dinner... bathing bed time and all the in between, yes ill admit i feel alone some days.. but am i?? well, probably not. but seriously on those days i need a glass of wine and a hot shower. I know that one day i will look back and think, "hmmm did i do that right?" and my answer would be, "yes, of course i was the mom i knew how to be and both of my kids are very well rounded smart young ladies, that i would never trade!" but on the same hand i think back to yesterday and ask,"What the hell was i thinking giving her red juice on my clean ligh colored carpets and couches?!?" Oh yeah i know what it was, i didnt want to give her soda! haha but in all seriousness i never saw myself with kids let alone a husband. and here i am in my 20's with two goregous girls and an amazing husband... Yeah we have our problems and "THOSE" days but this is MY life and i love it. and i know that i am not alone in this world, so on those days its ok to take your shirt off and hand it to someone (could be in a litteral scence (: ) and go take a hot damn shower drink some wine or beer listen to some music, and relax. maybe have some fun while in the process. but if mommy isnt taken care of, well then i guess its sandwhiches,chips and paper plates for dinner huh?! (: So while your living in the moment of your children take a second to remember who you are and what you are, Other than a mom and wife, and enjoy the life adventure of the unknown and be greatful for what and who you have! because i know that i sure am greatful!!! Mommies Enjoy Lifes Adventure <3 Q: What is one thing that you have missed doing before becoming a parent or wife???