Dh & I talked about kids before we married and always wanted 2. We've talked about not wanting too big of an age difference between them, but also not back to back. Well, ds just turned 3 and we're beginning potty training. He is into the whole, "I want to do it" stage. Which is when I always imagined starting to try for number 2.
I've been thinking about having another for a long time, but I've been half waiting for when I think ds will be at a good age for the change and half too nervous to even bring up the subject with dh. He recently got a huge raise, and we will soon be able to finally pay some bills off. I think when we start knocking those bills out, I would really like to start, but again, I don't even know how to bring it up to dh. & I'm nervous he won't agree.