My husband and I have 3 wonderful boys, 6, 4 (will be 5 in December) & 2. We have had two miss carriages, one between my 4 and 6 year old DSs and one just recently this year, on the 18th of July. We decided we were going to stop at 4, and then...we miss carried. I've brought up the subject of possibly still trying for a forth and my DH just kinda shrugs it off... So I brought it up again today and made him fess up what's bothering him and he finally told me that I am the one that decides when we have kids and I am the one that decides on their names and I am the one that says when I am ready to have another baby, and he feels like it's all just one sided except for the baby making part LOL *sigh* I apologized to him for being so controlling and the naming thing worked out, when we were thinking of names he put it all on me and now he's upset that I picked out 10-15 names and gave him the list and said pick one! And he picked one! He told me today that he wants to wait longer, if he even decides that he wants to have anymore... Witch he has told me in the past that he's good with the 3 we have... Anyways, I'm done rambling, I just would like an outside perspective... If you have any questions, just ask.