Do we have any blended families with ex husband wife's baby mama drama? PLEASE HELP!!
So I will run thru this as quick as possible I am not sure what to do at this point so help??
My fathers child married this lady about a year ago they have a child and she also has 2 other children that do not belong to him. My ex and I had been split up for about 4 years when they met so clearly me and him have both moved on. I am married and have been with my husband for 5 years. But ever since they have been together it has been a fight over everything he moved 2 hours away to live with her so no I am expected to travel an hour so my daughter can see her dad. Well here recently my daughter has been begging and crying to not go she says that his wife is mean to her. She is 7. So I tell my ex that we need to go back to mediation about this because I do not want anybody to be mean to my child..
We had to go through mediation as well because they would get her 2 hours away and refuse to meet me and would not tell me where they lived so I just quit responding to any texts.After mediation was done we had to agree on drop off times etc.... Well I never did sign the papers and I don't know why but after sunday I am glad I didn't..So my husband and I go to meet them and this lady his wife has cut my childs hair off like almost above her ears and it was down past her shoulders.. So I get out of the car and I say why did you cut her hair? And she starts screaming and cussing at me to shut the#$#$ up and calling me names and threathening to beat my ass, I know for a fact that she has been violent with my ex.
My concern is I do not want my child around somebody who is so violent. If she is going to be all crazy around me for no reason how does she act when she is alone with my child. My question is what is the next step here? I do not have the money to fight him in court and he does not have the money to fight me either so what should I do? Has anybody had any similiar experiences with this? Please help ladies!!!