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Are you comfortable with the age you were when you lost your virginity?

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Rosario Dawson's Confession About Her Virginity Is Actually Totally Inspiring

by Jenny Erikson

Rosario Dawson is jaw-droppingly sexy, and an amazingly talented actress. And she recently admitted to the fact that she was 20 before she did the deed! Ok, I know 20 isn’t that old for a lot of people, but considering the fact that she was 15 when she was cast in the controversial movie Kids, it’s pretty cool.

There’s a cliché about child stars and promiscuity, and there’s a good reason for that. You take that stereotype and layer it on top of what kind of character Dawson played in her breakout part … it’s even more admirable that she waited to cash in her V-card.

Kids was one of those movies that sparked a lot of debate because it was about young teenagers doing drugs and having unprotected sex -- one of them being knowingly HIV-positive and doing it anyway! Dawson played a provocative and promiscuous girl, and she shares a funny anecdote about what her parents were really worried about:

"With all the insanity that my character goes through, the only thing they cared about was not smoking.”

But the coolest thing that she said about the role was that it was the total opposite from her real life, and that she didn’t even lose her virginity until she was 20. What made her hold onto it? Respect for what her mom went through as a teen mom.

"I didn't even have sex until I was 20," Dawson said about the differences between Ruby and herself. "My mom was a teenage mom, I was deathly afraid of being a teenage mom.”

Awww! What a way to recognize and acknowledge the trials that her mom faced as a super young mother. It can’t be easy being a teen mom, and I think this shows that Rosario had a healthy respect for what her mom went through.

Plus it goes to show that you don’t have to have sex at a young age to end up as one of Hollywood’s hottest stars.

Are you comfortable with the age you were when you ... you know?

by on Oct. 4, 2013 at 9:50 AM
Replies (21-30):
by on Oct. 5, 2013 at 7:16 AM

Yup. I was 19 when I lost mine to DH (not married at the time). I had also been moved out of my mom's house and living on my own for a few months before I did it.

by on Oct. 5, 2013 at 11:26 AM
I was 21 and yes I was fine with my age.
by on Oct. 5, 2013 at 8:50 PM
I was 17. I kind of do regret it because I thought I was in love with my then boyfriend... I've been with dh for 7 years...
by on Oct. 5, 2013 at 8:52 PM

I was 19 and i'm definitely glad i waited that long.

by on Oct. 5, 2013 at 10:55 PM
I was 16 and I wish I would have waited i felt like i had to do it when i got to high school cause everyone had already done it even though I was blessed with my daughter so I lost virginity and got pregnant at the same time and yes I did use protection but it popped .
by on Oct. 5, 2013 at 10:58 PM
I was 19 and it was to my now husband. Very comfortable with that decision :)
by on Oct. 5, 2013 at 11:47 PM

I really wish I would have waited. I was almost 16 but now I regret it. 

by on Oct. 5, 2013 at 11:50 PM
I was 21 when I lost mine. Less than a year later I married the guy I lost my virginity to.
by on Oct. 5, 2013 at 11:59 PM

Yes, I was 16 and am totally comfortable with it. 

by Silver Member on Oct. 6, 2013 at 12:33 AM
I was 19, but a month away from being 20. I'm okay with it and it was with my now DH, so it's all good :)
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