I've been with my bf (kind of on & off) for over 4 years now. Our off times are mostly b/c of his baby mama drama. I have never done anything with his kids in 4 years. In the beginning she blamed me for him leaving her (or should I say for him not coming back to her again). He cheated on me with her in the beginning too. So to say at the least, I hate this bitch. He has tried several times to set up times for us to do this or that with all the kids & she always messes it up. Now after 4 years she wants to pretty much supervise me meeting the kids. I already said I this were to ever happen the is no way in hell my son would be going. She is a total psycho. Has dragged her kids screaming for his house. Starts fights almost every time he does get to see the kids. I refuse to have my son involved in something like that. She supposedly wants to just meet me, even though she has years ago, before me and my bf got together. Also he's never gotten that curtesy, he doesn't get a choice in anything that the kids do. I don't feel like this is a good idea. I also kind of feel like it will never actually happen, one of them is playing a game like always. Either she's just pushing shit off and can try to make herself look like the good guy, knowing I have no desire to ever see her ugly ass face. Or he's just saying this to me so he can push off court shit longer and buy himself some time without it being brought up. I don't really know what to do. Anyone have step kids or bf with kids by someone else? Do you have to deal with the baby mama? Did you officially meet her or anything? Anyone completely hate the baby mama?
on Oct. 7, 2013 at 3:12 PM