My ex and I weren't together but 3mos when we got engaged and we married 6mos after that. I've been divorced now almost as long as we were wed.
My current relationship, however, is progressing at a slower pace and I think that's a really good thing for both of us since we've both been divorced and we're both single parents.
How long was it between your first date and when he proposed to you? Was your engagement a long one, or really short? How long have you been married?