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Posted by on Nov. 1, 2013 at 1:48 AM
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Can you truly be friends with someone who you are attracted to? Not just someone who you think looks good, but you have a deeper connection to? Does it matter if you are in a relationship with a friend of theirs?
by on Nov. 1, 2013 at 1:48 AM
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Courtney610
by Courtney on Nov. 1, 2013 at 6:59 AM
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Um. This sounds like a recipe for disaster.

I have friends I find attractive, but I'm not attracted to them. There's a definite difference.

If you are in a serious relationship, you really need to evaluate your friendship and your relationship. Keep in my mind that the grass may seem greener on the other side, but it usually isn't.
CJsMommy92
by Bronze Member on Nov. 1, 2013 at 9:03 AM

Precisely what I was going to say

Quoting Courtney610:

Um. This sounds like a recipe for disaster.

I have friends I find attractive, but I'm not attracted to them. There's a definite difference.

If you are in a serious relationship, you really need to evaluate your friendship and your relationship. Keep in my mind that the grass may seem greener on the other side, but it usually isn't.


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jessicalahlah
by on Nov. 1, 2013 at 9:10 AM

No.

k9l1c5
by Ruby Member on Nov. 1, 2013 at 9:46 AM

This sounds like the perfect response...

I do not have any friends that I am attracted to at all. I have had friends I thought were hot, but no way would I have dated them. And yes I think it very much matters that not only are you in a relationship with a friend of his, but that you are in a relationship at all. And if you are having thoughts like these then you should really decide where you want your relationship to be going before you act on any of this.

Quoting Courtney610:

Um. This sounds like a recipe for disaster.

I have friends I find attractive, but I'm not attracted to them. There's a definite difference.

If you are in a serious relationship, you really need to evaluate your friendship and your relationship. Keep in my mind that the grass may seem greener on the other side, but it usually isn't.


MamaBear2cubs
by Nikki on Nov. 1, 2013 at 11:51 AM

Sure you can.

Bertha21
by Member on Nov. 1, 2013 at 11:52 AM
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I wouldn't risk it.
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luvmybug
by Amanda on Nov. 1, 2013 at 11:53 AM
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If you have a deeper connection to one of your friends, and also find them attractive, I'd say you need to re-evaluate your relationship.
kysmama08
by Member on Nov. 1, 2013 at 11:53 AM
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I don't think that would work out too well

Ryanswifey42012
by Member on Nov. 1, 2013 at 9:09 PM
If u have a deeper connection with this person I'd say it's a BAD idea.
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