I recently got an invited to a bridal shower to a girl I went to school with, I know her name but we never hung out and my DH knows the groom to be from the neighorhood. DH and the groom to be will talk if they meet up with each other, but we never hang out in a more than a hey there-hey there situation. The only reason I think I was invited to the shower was because we might be invited to the wedding ( I think the groom came to our wedding w/ another GF, so maybe he thought he should invite us, so not sure if we are invited or not)and I think that the MOH just went through the wedding list and invited EVERYONE on the list to the shower. So my question is it tacky to RSVP no and not send a present along or do I have to send a gift. Thanks Ladies!!!!