Lately though he has basically refused to help out with anything when he's awake. He won't do dishes, rarely helps clean and when he does he gets angry. And doesn't do much with the kids. Even on his nights off when he's awake at night he won't take care of the baby when he wakes up crying in the middle of the night. Instead he waits for me to wake up and take care of him while he watches TV and messes around on FB or on the iPad.
I try to talk to him but it hasn't made any difference. I'm not sure what to do now. I just know my patience is growing extremely thin.
Am I being unrealistic? Or am I being too demanding?
I should probably add that I also work full time AND I have worked third shift before. But I still got things done around the house and I was expected to. If I was a stay at home mom it probably wouldn't bother me QUITE as much.