he has never put his hands on me. He has made me feel stupid and treated me like his house slave for more than a year. Sadly I lost count how many times I have said "this is the last time". A few weeks ago I didn't tell him what was bothering me, I stopped doing everything that would tell him something was up. Right now we are living like roommates because he refused to help do things. It has set a fire under his ass, but he fell off the wagon but until he learns I'm not going to change it.
I used to have abusive exes and would always stick it out and stay becuase I hated divorce or hated failure..now I realizing I'm failing myself if I stayed with someone who disrespected me...I belive in second chances but I wont give 2nd chances to a man hitting me anymore or cheating. If he just perhaps says bad things; I may forgive it once or twice; im trying to be more forgiving; but I think love is respect so if someone disrespects me over and over; i'd be a fool to allow it again and again...i've been that girl though.
I would never allow him to put his hands on me, I would be out after the first time. And the disrespect and belittling would depend on the severity. I would maybe give him another chance after I talked to him about it.
none he disrespects me .no matter what their always needs to be respect
Hands on me - ZERO chances. He knows I won't tolerate that shit, and he can't stand men who do that either. Belittling me... it really depends on the exact situation and what words were said.
I think belittling is more destructive than hitting sometimes. My ex would get physical but it was the day in day out emotional abuse that did the most damage.
Now I wont put up with either. My SO gets a little pissy sometimes but he always respects me.
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