Hi mamas. My name is Jessica. I am a young 21 yr old mama with a 2.5 yr old. I've been married almost 4 yr this September. I have so many issues in my marriage but the biggest one im having issues with is that my husband never wants to stop playing Video Games. He can play for hrs. As soon as he wake and before he goes to bed. Sometimes he wont even go to bed with me he will stay up all night, and then sleep in all afternoon. If I even bring up that its becoming an issue he yells at me or is pissed off at me and wont speak to me. How am I suppose to react to that? He's curreently going to school full time (schools out now) and has no job. He never wants to leave the house nor does he want to spend quality time with his family. He's told me countless times that "he doesnt want to be told what to do", & " that he doesnt want to do anything". The part that most upsets me is that I fell in love with this man and in that have taken my vows seriously. Family means everything to me. All i ask is that things are fair, that we can both compromise, that we can both work together the way couples do, but instead he leaves me to do all the work alone. It really pisses me off.....Would this piss you off to? Am I overracting? I don't think I am. Any suggestions....?
Thanks for reading my story. ~Jess