Okay heres my story: My biological father left me and my mom when I was a baby. He choose drugs over me. I was adopted by who I call "dad" when I was 2. Hes an amazing man and father. I have known my biological grandparents my whole life, who have always danced around the subject of my father (which always made me very uncomfortable). I'm just kinda not sure what to do. We went to the lake to see my grandparents and again they dance around the subject of him. I'm on the fence here. On one side, I want to know him, I want to AT LEAST meet him (court orders prevented that till I was 18) so he doesn't die and me never meeting my biological father. On the OTHER side... this man left ME. He choose drug instead of his OWN DAUGHTER, why would I want that kind of person to be a part of my life? I know my emotions are normal, but I just don't know what to do. AND I would NOT want to hurt my dad. He was everything and more than he had to be. I love him to death, he IS my dad. Anybody else ever been in this situation? What would you do? Apparently he WANTS to meet me and his grandaughter, but I don't know what to do yet. PLEASE give me some suggestions.**ALSO*** He has a one year old little girl on top of everything else, that doesn't speak well for a man in his 50's!
on Jun. 19, 2007 at 3:53 PM