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Karbear

Jun. 9, 2007 at 9:45 AM by Karbear
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Anyone interested in having a "buddy" to vent to or help out?
Maybe the ladies with recent losses can get help from those of us who have dealt with it for a few years???

We can try this for a month.

Add a post with your screename, write a brief description of your loss and how often you would like to private message(daily, weekly, etc.). Also, state what you want. For example, " I would like to help someone". " I would like to have someone to help me, etc."

This is a way to have someone to "check-in" with you and follow the details of your situation.

So if you want to sign up with someone who you think you can help or you think you would like help from. Quote their description and say you would be interested. This will be a way of knowing that this person already has a buddy for the month.

Written by Karbear on Jun. 9, 2007 at 9:45 AM Send Karbear a message

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Karbear

by Karbear on Jun. 9, 2007 at 9:52 AM


Hi, I'm Karbear.
(description)
My mother passed away from lung cancer three and 1/2 years ago. I was pregnant at the time with my second child. I have gone through several stages of the grieving process.
(state what you will offer)
I would like to help someone with a recent loss or chat with someone who has loss their parent right when they started to have their own kids.
(how often)
I can chat on a  weekly basis or vent with someone who has been throught the same thing.

Quote and reply if you want to corespond by private message. Only one buddy. Thanks.
Momaluvzhrgurlz

by Momaluvzhrgurlz on Jun. 9, 2007 at 11:05 AM

My name is Penny 38, Chrisitan (Baptist if that matters) stay at home Mom and part time college student, 2 girls. I lost my Mom 11 years ago to complications due to Huntington's Diease (ie sepsis, kidney failure, and dementia).

Would like to help one buddy and I may need someone to give me support or hear me vent when I'm ANGRY that I don't have my Mom.

Message everyday if you need to or just whenever I usually check a few times through the day.

 ~Penny~

momof3lovingkid

by momof3lovingkid on Jun. 10, 2007 at 2:36 AM

My name is Danielle. i lost my mom may 12th 2007. the day before mothers day. she killed her self. i need help to talk to some one that nows how it feels to live without there mom. i have two girls one 2 and the other 2 months. i dont now what to tell my 2 year old. she asks for her grandma all the time.  i would like to message as often as we can. thank u
Karbear

by Karbear on Jun. 10, 2007 at 8:30 AM


Quoting momof3lovingkid:

My name is Danielle. i lost my mom may 12th 2007. the day before mothers day. she killed her self. i need help to talk to some one that nows how it feels to live without there mom. i have two girls one 2 and the other 2 months. i dont now what to tell my 2 year old. she asks for her grandma all the time.  i would like to message as often as we can. thank u

Hi Danielle,
I will sign up with you. : 0 )
Karbear

by Karbear on Jun. 10, 2007 at 8:30 AM


Quoting Karbear:


Hi, I'm Karbear.
(description)
My mother passed away from lung cancer three and 1/2 years ago. I was pregnant at the time with my second child. I have gone through several stages of the grieving process.
(state what you will offer)
I would like to help someone with a recent loss or chat with someone who has loss their parent right when they started to have their own kids.
(how often)
I can chat on a  weekly basis or vent with someone who has been throught the same thing.

Quote and reply if you want to corespond by private message. Only one buddy. Thanks.
I'm signed up!!
JillS

by JillS on Jun. 12, 2007 at 4:55 PM

Hi,
I am JillS.  I lost my mom almost 3 years ago.  She had colon cancer that spread to her brain as well as several other areas in her body.  My mom was not only my mom, she was my best friend.  She was suppose to be here to help me raise my boys (4 and 5).  But she is not.
I am willing to help anyone and chat with anyone who is dealing with the loss of their mom, but is alose willing to help me also.  Anyone who has lost their mom knows that the pain/void in your life,  just does not go away someday, you just get use to it.  Sometimes just getting your feeling out makes you feel a little better.   I am online several times a day, so we can chat whenever needed.

MOM_OF_FOUR_00

by MOM_OF_FOUR_00 on Jun. 13, 2007 at 4:37 PM

I was 17 years old when my mother died of cancer
It was cervical cancer that spread to her lungs
I miss her very much she never got to meet my children or hold them as babies
I have four kids and it is not easy to not have my mother to help me out
If you want to chat with me Jills send me a message back
Petitepatti

by Petitepatti on Jun. 13, 2007 at 5:40 PM


 Hello My name is Patti. I lost my mom 4 years ago. She was killed in a traffic accident along with my sister.  Her 70th birthday would have been this coming sunday.  All my non online freinds have their moms, so its hard for them to relate. Message me whenever you want for whatever you want. 

Patti

cath50

by cath50 on Jun. 14, 2007 at 1:33 PM

My name is Cathy,I lost my mom 13yrs ago to COPD,I think of her everyday. Please message me anytime,I check quite often. I am a good listener and I find I still need to talk about my mom.  Cat
Momaluvzhrgurlz

by Momaluvzhrgurlz on Jun. 14, 2007 at 2:10 PM


Quoting cath50:

My name is Cathy,I lost my mom 13yrs ago to COPD,I think of her everyday. Please message me anytime,I check quite often. I am a good listener and I find I still need to talk about my mom.  Cat
Hi Cathy this is Penny My Grandmother just passed almost 2 years ago form COPD I was her main caregiver since my Dad her son had passed. It is a aggrivating diease and stressful on the patient and th caregiver. If you need to talk jsut message me anytime I check a few times during the day. Message me if you want me to be your buddy.
p.s. my Mom passed 11 years ago form complications of Huntington's diease.

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