I am in a unique situation. I am engaged and we both have children from our previous marriage. I am amicable with my Ex and have very few issues on visitation and things like that. Unfortunatly, my Fiance's Ex is seriously emotionally unwell and has just abandoned their son because she has to pay child support.
My Fiance's son is 7 and is also emotionally disabled. We believe some of it is genetic and some of it is rage and anger from his mother's actions.
In any event, it sums up that we ALWAYS have his son with us. Because of his serious angry outbursts, my Fiance will not leave him with a babysitter and the only family he has in town is his mom who has physical limitations.
SO. This means we don't have time alone together. It is starting to affect our relationship. We don't get a date night or anything like that and his son is constantly all over my fiance looking for something to do. His ADHD is pretty bad despite all of the meds he is on and he is rarely able to entertain himself.
Do you have any ideas on how to keep the spark and romance when you literally have no time alone?