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I hate hate hate World of Warcraft!!
Like many other wives or girlfriends, I am a W.O.W widow, which is sad. And I am so sick of this game and what my boyfriend is allowing to happen to our relationship! I am a full time college student and work on the weekends. My boyfriend doesn't go to school but works. He plays his stupid game all day everyday, when he isn't at work. His day consists of waking up, playing wow, getting dressed for work( if he's scheduled), playing wow, going to work, then coming home and playing wow until he goes to bed, which sometimes is 4 in the morning. Then repeats this the next day! His excuse for it is always either your doing homework or your friends are here (my friends and I meet up for homework parties, where we do nothing but homework), or he then gets mad and tends to say, what do you want me to do, what tv with you? It's annoying that I have to beg him to get off to hang out with me. I have assigned him chores, SAD! And they are to take the trash out on the daily and to make sure he empties his plate in the trash and rinse it out. I refuse to be his maid. That's all I ask and yet I still do it all. I'm sooooo ready to give up on him and this relationship, and I dont want to. I love him so much and want to marry him, but I want to marry the old him, not this guy sitting on the computer in front of me. It's embarrassing that he is a 31 year old man with children and acts like this. I could understand if it was a couple hours a day and I've even settled and said that while his guild was scheduled to raid that was fine. But not to join other raids and stay on forever. I don't even care if I'm at work or school if he plays. But damn sometimes all I want to do is spend time with the person I love and it's too much to ask. He gets aggrevated at me if I want to go do something, whether it be with friends or not. What makes me mad the most is when I try telling him about my day or school or anything at that, he acts like I'm interrupting a conversation with him and his game:/ I even went and adpoted a kitten to keep me company and to show me attention. And have now become a motherly figure to the kitten, which btw he hates because it bothers him while he plays, plus he already hates animals. I honestly don't know how much more I can handle this and don't know what to do to stop this obsurd behavior. He wasn't like this when we met, nor did this game exist till about 2 months ago. He used to play it a long time ago but that was wayyyyyyyy before we met. I'm not the kind of girl to deal with this behavior and never have been. I have negotiated with him about the game and just want my boyfriend back. Any suggestions on what I can or how to help him?
P.S. I apologize this is so long but when I vent to my friends they don't understand what I'm talking about. So I found this site. Thanks for any suggestions or comments.