Vacation with my boyfriend and my son?

[dDanaD74]

I have been dating this guy for almost a year now, he is a major part of my life, second to my son of course, He wants to take my son and I on vacation, to Hawaii. he gets along great with son and wants to bond with him, i think its cute and I get that he wants his approval!

     The thing is Hes a work a holic, and I am glad that he wants to get away from the office for a while, he hardly ever does. He said we can get a two bedroom suite, for us and for my teen age son. Clearly he is going to want to have alot of sex, should I go or what should I do. Will this be awkward for my son?

[tsmom03]

I would not be in the same bed with my boyfriend if my kids were there.  But that is just me.  I think that, yes, it might be awkward for your son especially if he isn't aware that you do are having an intimate relationship before.

[SuzyQsie63]

I'm sure you're planning to be discrete and if it were me, I'd try to get rooms that aren't adjoining.  I guess there's no chance that he could bring a friend???  Then he won't feel like a 3rd wheel either.......