I am ticked . My ex doesn't pay enough support, bearely acknowledges the kids yet had another baby. It breaks my heart for the kids because they now feel abandoned and unloved!!
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on Feb. 7, 2007 at 12:28 PM
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on Feb. 7, 2007 at 1:03 PM
Quoting jodik:actually he is with her, she is the love of his life apparently!! Yeah they got pregnant about 4 months after I had my son!!
Oh my gosh! Do we have the same ex?! Mine had another baby when he found out I had another baby! That really sucks of them! Let me guess, he isnt w/ that girl either! Deadbeat!!
Mine was w/ this girl amanda when I found out I was prego w/ my daughter. She has a son the same age as mine. He begged her to get prego because "Jodi is" we are still friends me and amanda. She broke up w/ him when he was hiding her pills. Then he found hanah who had his baby 2 months before my daughter turned 1. They are not together anymore. According to my son, he never sees his little brother. Sad, but true. Now my ex has 2 sons that he is a deadbeat to. I dont know this girls last name or I would call her and talk. I thought maybe together we could do something a/b it! yah know!
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on Feb. 7, 2007 at 4:57 PM
well ladies my ex although we get along pretty good right now has 5 kids with me and twins with his "wife" and another baby with a girl he hooked up with between me and his wife!
He pays for none of his children although he does see them now that him a his wife is split up! He has a new g/f and asked his wife to sign for him to get a vesectomy and she told him no so not to much longer and my kids will have yet another brother or sister!
He pays for none of his children although he does see them now that him a his wife is split up! He has a new g/f and asked his wife to sign for him to get a vesectomy and she told him no so not to much longer and my kids will have yet another brother or sister!
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on Feb. 8, 2007 at 9:01 AM
That sounds a lot like my ex...... he has 3 cases in the county we are in 2 other kids then my 2 kids...... Then claims that he lives and takes care of a kid that he told me wasn't his then we are at court and it is his kid..... or so he claims. So my kids are getting $45 a week which he isn't even paying all of that.... How screwed up is that.
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on Feb. 9, 2007 at 9:24 AM
Hello there, I have an ex that did the same thing but in my situation it my be differernt I had a baby named kristina and she named her baby the same as mine... The father never seems him much but what gets my son mad is he is willing to raise his daughter and he was the first born and he gets that baby everything and nothing for my son he tells me since he pays me 30.00 a week that should be enough for him ... my son is 13 and his father makes about 400.00 a week and pays only about 800.00 on his own bills he wouldn't even help me with school supplies never bought him a birthday present or christmas he just dont think about him at all.. I wish their was a law where dead beat dads could go to jail for abdoned their children maybe they would nt be thinking about leaving them so quick....
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on Feb. 9, 2007 at 11:34 AM
Quoting skrip5:In my state, if you don't pay your child support, you can only get away with it for so long, and then the state throws the book at you. Even if the father doesn't have a job, they will suspend your diver's license, issue a warrant, and when they catch up with you, you goto jail. For my ex it's just a matter of time, my twins are 9 months, and her already owes me 7,000 dollars in back pay.
Hello there, I have an ex that did the same thing but in my situation it my be differernt I had a baby named kristina and she named her baby the same as mine... The father never seems him much but what gets my son mad is he is willing to raise his daughter and he was the first born and he gets that baby everything and nothing for my son he tells me since he pays me 30.00 a week that should be enough for him ... my son is 13 and his father makes about 400.00 a week and pays only about 800.00 on his own bills he wouldn't even help me with school supplies never bought him a birthday present or christmas he just dont think about him at all.. I wish their was a law where dead beat dads could go to jail for abdoned their children maybe they would nt be thinking about leaving them so quick....
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on Feb. 9, 2007 at 12:24 PM
Oh mY!!! That is terrible! I don't understand why they don't take care of their kids. breaks my heart really. I hope you ex goes away, maybe he'll learn to do what he needs for your children
Quoting GotTwins206:Quoting skrip5:In my state, if you don't pay your child support, you can only get away with it for so long, and then the state throws the book at you. Even if the father doesn't have a job, they will suspend your diver's license, issue a warrant, and when they catch up with you, you goto jail. For my ex it's just a matter of time, my twins are 9 months, and her already owes me 7,000 dollars in back pay.
Hello there, I have an ex that did the same thing but in my situation it my be differernt I had a baby named kristina and she named her baby the same as mine... The father never seems him much but what gets my son mad is he is willing to raise his daughter and he was the first born and he gets that baby everything and nothing for my son he tells me since he pays me 30.00 a week that should be enough for him ... my son is 13 and his father makes about 400.00 a week and pays only about 800.00 on his own bills he wouldn't even help me with school supplies never bought him a birthday present or christmas he just dont think about him at all.. I wish their was a law where dead beat dads could go to jail for abdoned their children maybe they would nt be thinking about leaving them so quick....
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on Feb. 9, 2007 at 6:34 PM
I know how you feel, my ex had another baby with his now gf and wont have anything to do with my son. But he can support them and not my son? They dont know what they are missing and losing out on. Thats there loss!!!
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on Feb. 10, 2007 at 4:39 PM
I agree Butterfly, one day they may try to come back and be real dads and it may be too late.
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