Welcome

[mama24]

A big warm welcome to all moms. I am so glad that you joined!!! I have had it with the lack of fathering from my ex and the sad little faces from my 3 older children. I try to talk to people but most people not in this situation don't understand. I am so glad that we now have somewhere we can vent and offer/receive support.
Sometimes I feel so guilty for WHAT I have done to the kids. Isn't that funny? That if I hadn't left, they maynot feel abandonned/ Does anyone esle feel like this?  Feel free to add e to your friends list ladies if you like.

[bubbles1984]

Thanks for the welcome. I have needed somewhere to vent...... I think we all do!

[Kyansbusymom]

Thank you for the welcome I really feel like I have somewhere and someone to vent to know and that feels so good being a singel busy mom so thank you again

[mamaelisa]

thank you I really do not know if I could have gone any longer venting to myself. I needed this more than you know.

[lovingmom06]

Hello...I think this will be a good place for me to come and talk about my sons father so I dont have to get any of my friends in the middle of it...thank you for making such a place to vent.

[shesmysalvation]

Thanks for the welcome! This group is actually the big reason why I signed up on CafeMom. I am a myspace addict and I have been seeing the cafemom ad everyday and always thinking about signing up but never actually doing it. Today I decided to check the site out and lol the first thing I seen was "my ex is a deadbeat....."; I knew then that I would fit in just fine! I personally think that its great that you are keeping the name the way it is; its just like what another mother said, this is CafeMOM not CafeDAD and this particular group is for mothers with deadbeat ex's. If there are father's out there that feel that urge to vent about their deadbeat ex's then they should start their own website called CafeDad with the whole shabang. Anywho I think this is a great group and not because we can sit here and vent about our ex's together but because we are all obviously mother's who are not with the fathers of their children. I believe that being a parent is hard period but being a single parent and dealing with all the drama that comes along with it makes everything 10x harder and its nice to speak to people that can actually empathise with you instead of just staring at you like you are some alien with baggage.

[ashley705]

Thanks for the welcome also! what a great idea for a group!

[hecticlife77]

Hello, I am new to the group, but I liked this title.... I definately have a dead beat ex husband. We have two children, and he is suppose to pay me  62.00 a week, needless to say he has not paid 10 payments in the last year. I am so frustrated, i don't know what to do at times. My children had to go and stay with my grandparents for the summer because I couldn't afford the daycare fees. I am working full time and part time just to make ends meat, and the child support office still has not been able to make him pay me anything. I am looking for anyone who can give me words of encouragement. I know that God will provide for me and my children, but it is still so hard and diffucult at times. Thanks.

[anja1975]

Thanks for the welcome and thanks for starting this group!!! We all need a place to vent and get new ideas on what we can do to get something out of the dead beats ! Im so happy that you have started this group !!! Its an awesome place , so THANK YOU!!!!!

 

[MissJazzy101]

Been looking for a group I can REALLY relate 2

[MsYvi]

 Hi, I am new and came across this site from myspace.  I have been trying to hold myself up and be strong for the sake of my new baby girl who is now 2 1/2 months old.  Her father abandoned us when I was 8 weeks pregnant.  Right now, I have no clue of his whereabouts.  I feel that he has gotten away with paying child support.  I am so glad that there is such a group like this one, where I can reach out for advice and support.  I am looking forward to make a lot of friends here.  Take care all!