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stupid sperm donor

Posted by on Jun. 8, 2009 at 2:22 PM
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so i got divorced about 2 years ago, feel longer because im happy now lol, anyways this is going to be a  long story and im sorry....but i need to vent.

i live in florida, and the courts ordered my ex to get a 100,000 life insurance policy, health insurance for my son and to pay 218.30 bi weekly. ok good everything was good for over a year, this past february he got fired from his job, and hasnt work for 4 months now, and isnt even looking for a job. he doesnt care that my son needs things or wants things. my ex doesnt even remember his own sons birthday, come on WTF? so anyways i think its unfair that i have to have my child go with his lazy, no job, no car, no money ass living with his mom at the age of 30 no good loser. but if i hold my child from him, he can call the cops and i get into trouble. but why is it ok for him to do nothing? i dont understand, i cant afford a lawyer or a court. only because i need to support my child unlike him.  but my ex goes out and has the time of his life, he even buys himself nike shoes, and nothing for my son :*( im angry, upset, pissed off and annoyed. im have so many emotions i could freakin scream. now here is the best part.....my remarried and doug ( my husbands name) took on my son like he was his own, loves him, plays with him and spoils him to no end. he is a true meaning of a father/daddy! my son even calls him daddy and calls his bio dad marc lol. see even my son knows the truth. i needed to vent, any comments or whatever is welcomed! please give some advice!!!

Posted by on Jun. 8, 2009 at 2:22 PM
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by on Jun. 9, 2009 at 7:21 PM

i got a sperm donor too...only he''s living in ohio's prison system for the next couple of years after already spending a few years...he gets out and then does something else stupid to get locked back up...has only paid 20 dollars in child support in almost 6 years...the last time he saw her i left her with him so i could do her christmas shopping. when i went back to pick her up....he was gone..walked to meet his girlfriend...fuck him....just remember, it could always be worse

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