Not really ready?

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  • AustinsMommy007
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 5:45 PM

• its ok! everything will work itself out..you would never be handed something you couldnt handle. just keep your head up..this baby is a blessing..ready or not!

  

             mommy to Austin  6/25/2007

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  • Mor-Forwyn
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 5:49 PM

• THANK YOU :D

  I keep telling myself that... sometimes, though, I need to hear it from somebody else
  

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  • shesgot4kidz
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 5:51 PM

• its perfectly normal to feel scared.. im prego with #4 im only 23 and im scared too but children are blessings!!!! and if you wernt using protection then its obviously bound ot happen and if u were using then you know its just ment to be!!! good luck and take it easy youll be fine sweetie!!

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  • Mor-Forwyn
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 5:59 PM

• This will be #3 for me- and I'm 19. Sometimes I feel like saying "I am too young to handle this"... but usually I'm totally happy with my life the way it is.

  I'm definitely glad to hear that it actually is normal. My friend Tara calls this the "initial estrogen attack" and it's basically how she defines pregnancy- lots of fear, crying, and puking lol. :D
  

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  its perfectly normal to feel scared.. im prego with #4 im only 23 and im scared too but children are blessings!!!! and if you wernt using protection then its obviously bound ot happen and if u were using then you know its just ment to be!!! good luck and take it easy youll be fine sweetie!!

  
  

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  • kelleysangels
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 6:02 PM

• Hey Im 30 years old pregnant with number 5 and I am terrified.  So yes it is okay to be afraid.  But one thing that my husband keeps telling me is that, remember you were afraid with the other 4 but you made it.  And now that I think back, yes I did make it.  And you will too.  You will have so much fun with your 3 babies.  So keep your head up and be strong.  It will be okay!

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  • Rylansmommy386
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 6:04 PM

• im sure youll be fine. i think every women has a feeling of uncertainty and sometimes fear of not being able to handle another child or even the first child. i know i have had the same feelings with this pregnancy and they are very overwhelming at times. Its almost to the point of guilt of bringing another child into this world without knowing that i can take care of it. if that makes any sense to you. But everyone i talk to says that its normal to feel this way and its just another sign of being a good mother. Take it from me, its better to worry about your kids well being than not to care at all!!! Im sure everything will work out fine and your SO will come around. Maybe he is just having  a few feelings of uncertainty also. Try not to push him into talking about it. When he feels hes ready im sure he will come to you with it.

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  • iamcafemom83
  on Jul. 4, 2009 at 8:46 PM

• everything happens for a reason! this child was meant to happen, whether u know it now or not! maybe u can get your other kids to help out with certain things....are they big enough to hold a bottle, or even change a diaper eventually? good luck! 

  
  

  
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