maybe i'm just not ment to have another baby

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  • dmays
  on Nov. 6, 2009 at 7:21 PM

• i feel like i am not meant to have any children at all...
  

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  • feralkitten
  on Nov. 6, 2009 at 7:29 PM

• yeah i guess i should just be grateful for the 3 kids i have and i am

  it silly i just allways thought i would have 2 of my own

  
  

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  • newmom2be08
  on Nov. 6, 2009 at 9:32 PM

• Is this your son?  He is totally adorable!!!!  Don't give up hope yet.  Good things come to those who wait.  We are TTC #2, but I know deep down that I have a hormonal imbalance.  I keep getting pregnancy symptoms every month, but then AF shows up.  I just don't feel like myself, but I am determined to get back there, whatever the cost.  I feel that my clock is ticking as I am 35 and DH is 42.  I am hoping that God blesses us with one more, but if He doesn't, I will accept His will.  He knows what is best for me.  My heart aches for another child though, so I know how you feel.  Hang in there momma!  Your day will come! 

  Quoting feralkitten:
  
  

  yeah i guess i should just be grateful for the 3 kids i have and i am

  it silly i just allways thought i would have 2 of my own

  
  

  
  

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  • feralkitten
  on Nov. 7, 2009 at 9:05 AM

• yeah that's my wee man

  this ids my step daughter i raise full time she is 6
  

  

  ans this is my step son who is 8

  
  

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  • Jennieliz
  on Nov. 8, 2009 at 6:25 AM

• Hi ladies, just thought I would lend a word of support.  I'm trying for number two also - my Max is almost 2 - we had a hard time getting pregnant with him - tried for 2 years and finally ended up getting pregnant on our second IUI (no fertility drugs).  We got pregnant on our own in February, but I started bleeding after 5 days and I haven't had any luck since.  I'm also worried about a hormonal imbalance.

  That said, I just found a site on the internet called www.myfertilitysuccess.com.  Be careful, it's selling something - I'm not trying to convince you to buy it or anything, but I bought the e-book and she made some really good points - namely, that you can choose your own fertility energy.  I know it sounds hokey, but I believe in that stuff, and to me it makes sense - if you're scared all the time and thinking that you're not meant to be one of the "chosen" ones, the universe will respond in kind, and it will become sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy.  But if you "choose" fertility, consciously weeding out your fears and negative thoughts and focusing on your body's amazing ability to create life (as well as taking good care of yourself physically and emotionally), fertility will come to you.  The reason this makes sense to me is that at every time in my life when I've stopped being afraid and just focused on my own power and just consciously decided that everything would be OK (when I had given up on getting married and then totally randomly met my husband, when I moved to Holland with no job and ended up getting a great one exactly in my career, and when I finally got pregnant with Max), those are the times when I got exactly what I had been afraid I wouldn't get.  So, I'm trying to do it again this time, because I just KNOW that Max isn't meant to be an only child!

  I truly believe that if you want to be a mother you deserve to be one, and your little one is just waiting for the right moment to come to you.  So don't give up!

  

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  • Mommyof3yippey
  on Nov. 10, 2009 at 10:40 AM

•  I had to have infertility testing, meds, ovary removed...mc after mc...after going through all this I have become very proactive. If I get a Bfn, then the next cycle I am trying something different..whether it be vitex, evening primrose oil, castor oil, vitamin b6, soy isoflavones...etc etc

  Have you tried things to enhance your fertility? that's a good start...do not give up...the stress can hinder fertilty...relax..it's bound to happen.

   

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  • Naegore
  on Nov. 10, 2009 at 10:48 AM

• for some people it just takes years. don't worry about it. maybe it would be better if you took your focus off of it. trying yet not.
  

  It is neither safe nor prudent to do anything against conscience. My conscience is captive to the Word of God. -Martin Luther

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  • Camille29
  on Nov. 11, 2009 at 8:25 AM

• Hey,

  Don't worry you are not alone, we have been TTC #2 for 18 months ( my daughter just turned 3) and nothing at all. I am also taking care my step son full time (11 years old). 

  I tried clomid 3 cycles, then I got sick over the summer with mono, and now I am trying with acupunture and chinese herbs. I am very hopeful that it will work and if it doesn't work I will go see fertility specialist. I want to try the most natural way possible I am not for hormones at all.

  good luck and keep your hopes it will happen

   

  Camille

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  • feralkitten
  on Nov. 11, 2009 at 9:52 AM

• i just hope they never messed me up when i got mu c-section
  

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