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feeling negative :(

Posted by on Nov. 28, 2009 at 11:07 PM
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well i messed up and tested early twice, both bfn of course. today, the 28th, was my 'goal' to wait to test. also BFN. AF is due the 30th....i am not having any prego symptoms..... im not even going to bother testing until af is late....getting tired of seeing BFN. if i was prego, wouldnt i notice SOMETHING by now?? or not??

i didnt ttc my first son, he was a suprise, so i have no idea....

Posted by on Nov. 28, 2009 at 11:07 PM
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lindsayWA
by on Nov. 28, 2009 at 11:58 PM

I'm sorry your down right now.  I know it's hard to see that BFN.  I usually try to tell myself it's going to be negative so I won't be so bummed but it doesn't work.  A lot of people don't have symptoms for awhile.  It's still possible so keep your chin up.

Ketch24
by Bronze Member on Nov. 29, 2009 at 12:01 AM

Sorry your so down, i know seeing those BFN's are so hard. But with my last pregnancy I didn't get a BFP until AF was due so don't give up yet. And I would wait until AF is late so your not obsessing over it too much, that can make AF coming even harder. 

Keep your mind off of things and stay positive! Hope you get your BFP soon!!

ready_for2
by on Nov. 29, 2009 at 12:12 AM

thanks ladies for your support. this has been my first month really TRYING to conceive....and no one in real life even knows i am so i have no one to talk to about it except for all of you on CM

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