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Question for the pregnant ladies!

Posted by on Dec. 2, 2009 at 10:13 PM
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Does your tummy feel soft? At what point does it start to feel harder? I keep thinking I'm pregnant but I push on my stomach and it still feels soft or whatever. This might help me determine!

Posted by on Dec. 2, 2009 at 10:13 PM
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EHolman
by on Dec. 2, 2009 at 10:14 PM

mine felt soft for the first couple months

hurst0three
by Silver Member on Dec. 3, 2009 at 1:14 AM

My stomach is starting to feel a little harder now that I'm going into my 2nd trimester. I think it varies from woman to woman. In time you will know if you're pregnant or not. I know its hard to do but think positive, but don't rely on only signs of pregnancy. Go about your life as if you're not and if you get a positive test, then start thinking about being pregnant. Thats what helped me. I would drive myself nuts wondering if I was pregnant or not. I finally got to the point where I didn't care anymore and just started doing normal everyday activities with my family. The month I decided not to worry about it and just live was the month we got pregnant. It will happen soon for ya, just have to keep living. Don't put your life on hold hoping. I wish you lots of luck and baby dust!

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miacat
by on Dec. 4, 2009 at 3:06 PM

Good question! I have been wondering that myself. :)

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momonthegox3
by on Dec. 4, 2009 at 3:09 PM

Well technically your utures doesn't come out over your pubic bone until 12 weeks. But it can push everything else out. just feeling soft. I think it depends on how much tummy u had before? If your stomach is totally flat before pg than I would say after 12 weeks for sure.If not than probably 5 months. 

Erika2408
by on Dec. 4, 2009 at 3:52 PM

Well my tummy looks like a bowl full of jello thanks to my son ha so ya its soft and i'm 8weeks.  With my first i'd say it started getting hard and coming out around 4months i was a lot smaller then with little tummy fat.

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MrsBrF
by on Dec. 4, 2009 at 3:56 PM

Well, mine's still soft and I'm 9 weeks.  I was wondering that too and always poking around.  I think I'm making is sore with all the poking! This is my first pregnancy and I did have a layer of fat before-hand.  No rock hard abs here..darn!! haha.. 

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by Member on Dec. 4, 2009 at 3:57 PM

i am almost 15 weeks and my tummy is starting to get hard...

 




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heathery21
by on Dec. 9, 2009 at 2:06 PM

We're about 8 weeks and yeah still soft over here too!  But it's still early:)

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