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ive never been so sure (final update)

Posted by on Mar. 11, 2010 at 11:37 AM
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as i sit here and try not to cry as not to worry my boys im typing this. the doctor called and the pregnancy test is negative they arent sure what is going on since its not sormal for me to miss a period the other tests havent come back yet but somethings wrong

ok just got back from the docs and she is testing for an infection, she also did a quant blood test. BUT im thinking to myself if it was an infection would my boobs hurt? and if it was bad enough to stop my period wouldnt i have a fever? i took another HPT and it was BFN again but im so sure and so confused at the same time. hopefully they call me tomorrow and let me know for sure more waiting im gonna crack

 this is what i did, i called my ummm muti purpose?? doctor lol, she does everything literally manipulations, family care and she use to be a mid wife but it was too much so she dropped that... anyway i explained the situation and told her how i feel she doesnt like my OB to begin with so she made an appointment for me in her office monday afternoon, i hope i get answers soon

in all my pregnacies ive never been as positive that i was pregnant as i am right now but the BFN thing wavers my confidence i just feel so sure and i dont know why im getting BFNs and my ob wont see me till i get a BFP

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daisybellemom
by on Mar. 11, 2010 at 11:39 AM

Well baby dust to you sweetie.  I would wait a few days and take another one.  Usually when you wait you will either be preggo or your AF will be a b*tch and come the next day.  LOL.

Sweet_Britt
by Member on Mar. 11, 2010 at 11:45 AM

Wait, how do you know you're pregnant without a BFP on a test? haha!

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Benjamins-mama
by on Mar. 11, 2010 at 11:57 AM

intuition or gut instinct.......

Cmyfantasyworld
by Bronze Member on Mar. 11, 2010 at 12:00 PM

I was never good at gauging my gut instinct lol

But I hope you are! Wait a few days and test again. Good luck. 

myboyzrmyheart
by on Mar. 11, 2010 at 12:02 PM

 How late are you? Maybe wait a few days and test again. Sending sticky baby dust your way!!!!

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Jesika90-09
by on Mar. 11, 2010 at 12:08 PM

 If you don't get a BFP soon, you could always lie. lol I know that's horrible, but you pay your doctor for care (whether out of your own pocket or with insurance)... that's what they're there for... WHEN and WHY they give you care isn't really up to them. If you are that late, it usually isn't healthy or you are pregnant. So if you're not getting BFP's within the time they want from you, then just lie. Tell them you did. It's not good to miss a period by very much (not necessarily bad, obviously, but a simple thing that might affect TTC that a doctor can easily fix if they know the problem)...

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Sweet_Britt
by Member on Mar. 11, 2010 at 12:09 PM

I actually agree with this.

Quoting Jesika90-09:

 If you don't get a BFP soon, you could always lie. lol I know that's horrible, but you pay your doctor for care (whether out of your own pocket or with insurance)... that's what they're there for... WHEN and WHY they give you care isn't really up to them. If you are that late, it usually isn't healthy or you are pregnant. So if you're not getting BFP's within the time they want from you, then just lie. Tell them you did. It's not good to miss a period by very much (not necessarily bad, obviously, but a simple thing that might affect TTC that a doctor can easily fix if they know the problem)...


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2milesboys
by on Mar. 11, 2010 at 12:10 PM

 11 days late

Hrivera5
by Gold Member on Mar. 11, 2010 at 12:16 PM

 I would totally go back and get blood test (saying you got a positve HPT)....might be bad or whatever...but better for you to know!

Quoting 2milesboys:

 11 days late

 

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MyBbyGrlSleeps
by on Mar. 11, 2010 at 12:34 PM

Dont stress it derails your af and makes it harder to get preggo... Take a deep breath relax and try in a few days......

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