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Painful sex? TMI

Posted by on Mar. 14, 2010 at 11:58 PM
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Okay so I am on cd16 now, no sign of O on my bbt chart and no positive opk. So hubby and I have been bding every other night since cd11 (though its almost been every day).. 

Well tonight hubby came home from work at 6pm and we knew he was going to have to go back at either 9 pm or 2 am. Well I had just finished dinner, hubby gets the call that they need him there at 9pm and 2 am.. So we discussed it and he is just going to work at 9pm and staying there until they need him at 2am, so as not to waste more gas.... Its about 20 miles each way.. Anyways. We were rushing for time, it was almost 8pm, so we had to get the kiddos to bed.. So I bathed them, we dressed them, brushed their teeth, all that jazz..read them a story, said prayers and put them to bed... 

Then we tried to bd really quick. Tmi but we did it missionary then we went to doggie style. It was hurting me doggie style.. I know my cervix was a medium to high.. and my GYN has told me I have a short vagina lol.. so anyways he was bumping that area.. we switched positions and finished up sex... I put an instead cup in and he went off to work. I walked him outside and omg my left ovary is so sore... it was hurting as he was bumping my cervix too.  

Anybody know whats up with that. 

Posted by on Mar. 14, 2010 at 11:58 PM
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candcsmom2008
by on Mar. 15, 2010 at 12:04 AM

Sounds like you are getting close to O-ing. I feel that same way around the time I O. GL MOMMA

kiddo0820
by Gold Member on Mar. 15, 2010 at 12:06 AM

That happens to me sometimes too and afterwards it feels tender "down there" I have no idea what causes it, I thought it was normal but I don't 100% know what's normal when it comes to some things about sex because I don't have much experience (my dh was my first) 

Cmyfantasyworld
by Bronze Member on Mar. 15, 2010 at 1:07 AM


Quoting candcsmom2008:

Sounds like you are getting close to O-ing. I feel that same way around the time I O. GL MOMMA

I hope so. Thank you : )

Cmyfantasyworld
by Bronze Member on Mar. 15, 2010 at 1:08 AM


Quoting kiddo0820:

That happens to me sometimes too and afterwards it feels tender "down there" I have no idea what causes it, I thought it was normal but I don't 100% know what's normal when it comes to some things about sex because I don't have much experience (my dh was my first) 

Yea I dont either.. Hubby was my second..and my first was an ex with whom I had sex maybe 4 times total. So almost all of my sexual experience is with hubby. 

melissam21
by Melissa on Mar. 15, 2010 at 1:55 AM

This berly started to happen to me about a week ago. The dr told me a few weeks ago that i have a cyst i thought that that was causing the pain but im not sure

Cmyfantasyworld
by Bronze Member on Mar. 15, 2010 at 1:57 AM

Yeah I have heard of it such a pain possibly being a cyst too : ( .. I had a friend who had horrible pain during sex, but all the time.. she had to have a very large cyst removed surgically from her ovary!

This has only been one time, so I am hoping it is an ovulation thing rather than a cyst....I guess if it keeps happening. I will be seeing my OB about it. 

melissam21
by Melissa on Mar. 15, 2010 at 2:10 AM

Yeah it could have been your ovulation when I had sex last night i had nopain. goodluck hopefully your test will be positive!

Cmyfantasyworld
by Bronze Member on Mar. 16, 2010 at 1:31 PM

Yea we had sex yesterday and I was sore, but it wasnt painful like it had been. 

candcsmom2008
by on Mar. 16, 2010 at 1:34 PM

Def inatly O. GL MOMMA

Cmyfantasyworld
by Bronze Member on Mar. 16, 2010 at 1:50 PM

Thank You : )

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