I guess I will be leaving this group now, before I got pregnant with #2 3 years ago I was diagnosed with severe cervical dysplasia(caused from HPV) which is the final stage before cervical cancer, it went away(or so I thought) while I was pregnant, my doctor said the cervix regenerates itself while you're pregnant(or something like that). Anyways, I got the results from my latest pap and they are not good, I have what appears to be severe dysplasia again, they cannot confirm it's not cancer until I get my biopsy.......however, my doctor has recommended that I have a hysterectomy to prevent the problem from becoming life threatening in the future.....and of course, DH wants me to have one as well, he said we were blessed with two beautiful children and maybe that's all we're meant to have........doesn't make this any easier though :(
Oh honey.. I'm so sorry. I can't imagine. :( Makes me nervous that mine isn't really gone... Good luck.. And remember, there IS a reason for everything, try to keep your head up. HUGS!
First i like to say im very sorry to hear that and that , that is a big discission to make all at once did you ask them if theres any way to get read of it with out taking your utarus out , im not shour that, that would be the best way to go they wanted to do this to my mom cause she was bleeding out to much after giving birth to my sister and she said no and she still living we have a 18tn year old brother he would not be hear if she said yes not that im saying you should say no but to realy think about this befor hand cause it some thing you can never change,or could you save some of your eggs and find some one who is willing to carry the baby to term for you my be a sister or some one close you know that will give the baby unpone birth sorry just trying to help but i so sorry and i wish you the best off luck i hope this helped you i just wanted to let you know thier are other ways of havinga baby an what about adoption there are so many childern out there who need homes well sorry to go on and on i do wish you the very best of luck
Oh I am so so sorry.... that is such sad news!
I would make to get a second opinion before you get a hysterectomy. But if you do have to I am very sorry that you were not able to go for #3.
Just remember there are lots of way to grow your family and adoption or fostering might be a way for you to do that... you might not be ready to think about that yet though.
*HUGS*
Take good care of yourself and allow your self a lot of space and time to grieve...
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oh honey I am so sorry!!!....but I have a question...why would they recommend a hysterectomy right now while you don't know if its cancer or not.....it may or may not develop into cancer and if it doesn't wouldn't you still want to have another baby? I don't mean to be mean or over step but that would be the thing running through my head....and even if you do have cervical cancer they can cut it out without getting rid of your uterus...a very good friend of mine has been battling cervical cancer for 5 years and they have never even brought up hysterectomy....and she has gotten pregnant twice.....I'm so very sorry hon!!
To be honest, these were my first thoughts....but I know nothing about all of this. The whole thing is heartbreaking, and I hope its not cancer!
Quoting julieobug:
oh honey I am so sorry!!!....but I have a question...why would they recommend a hysterectomy right now while you don't know if its cancer or not.....it may or may not develop into cancer and if it doesn't wouldn't you still want to have another baby? I don't mean to be mean or over step but that would be the thing running through my head....and even if you do have cervical cancer they can cut it out without getting rid of your uterus...a very good friend of mine has been battling cervical cancer for 5 years and they have never even brought up hysterectomy....and she has gotten pregnant twice.....I'm so very sorry hon!!
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