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Hubby's High Libido Hurting Our Chances

Posted by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 5:59 PM
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Everything I research online says that too frequent sex can decrease a male's sperm motility.  My hubby wants sex like 2 or 3 times a day.  I make a point to never say no to him except on very rare occasions when I'm extremely exhausted.  Anyone have any advice as to what I can do or say without getting technical about TTC?   


by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 5:59 PM
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.mandabear.
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:01 PM

I got pregnant having sex 5+ times a day.

Mygirlszas
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:05 PM

I dont think that would be a problem, I think the more the better! My friend got pregnant and the did it at least 2x a day!

Bren07
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:09 PM

 it is best to keep it to just once a day but if ur hubby doesnt have and sperm issues and u have been having sex like that for a long time before starting TTC then i dont see an issue with it..

Ladybug8412
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 10:24 PM

Thanks ladies!  Guess we'll just keep up the good work, lol! 

strawberryLVR
by Silver Member on Sep. 28, 2010 at 10:25 PM

uhh..I can barely get my husband to have sex 2 times a WEEK! can we trade for a while? lol

SoLuckysAngel
by Member on Sep. 28, 2010 at 10:30 PM

Both time I've been pregnant it's been on a day when we've had sex more then once. And more then once multiple days in a row.

As long as he doesn't have count issues you should be fine.

J.Norman
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 11:14 PM
I am the one wanting it two or three times a day but when we got pregnant in July we were making it a point every other day until day 12 then every day for 10 days then back to every other day i have 32 to 38 day cycles. We will start this method back Oct 17th almost a month after our loss. I hope we get pregnant again soon.
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scenkush
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 11:42 PM

I had that problem too much sex ended up being a bad problem for me!! Took me 18 months which isnt normal for me, we were trying to hard!!

Ladybug8412
by on Sep. 30, 2010 at 1:29 PM
Lmbo! Sometimes I wish his libido wasn't so high, but I guess the other extreme would be more of a problem!


Quoting strawberryLVR:

uhh..I can barely get my husband to have sex 2 times a WEEK! can we trade for a while? lol


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Ladybug8412
by on Sep. 30, 2010 at 1:30 PM
I hope you get your BFP soon! So sorry about your loss.


Quoting J.Norman:

I am the one wanting it two or three times a day but when we got pregnant in July we were making it a point every other day until day 12 then every day for 10 days then back to every other day i have 32 to 38 day cycles. We will start this method back Oct 17th almost a month after our loss. I hope we get pregnant again soon.

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