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ttc and tired of miscarrying so tell me what i need to do please!

Posted by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 6:53 PM
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starting in june last year i have had 6 miscarriages...

idk what to do

idk how to track my ovulations or any of that stuff to be quite blunt i just know to have sex and to test... im tired of getting my hopes up... 6weeks ago this past saturday i lost my baby at 19 weeks pregnant... it kills me and im just wanting another baby so bad.... i keep seeing all the abervations and i wanna know what they mean.... i have got most of them figured out except a few with the main one dpo anyways i just need help!

by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 6:53 PM
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Proud_Mommy05
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 6:56 PM

 First of all sorry for your loss.  ((HUGS))  DPO stands for Days Past Ovulation.  You can buy OPK's (ovulation tests) and use those or you can chart your temp on Fertilityfriend.com  Good luck!! Lots of baby dust sent to you!

scharette
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 6:57 PM
Dpo means days past ovulation. As for how to help have you had any testing done? Maybe you could have a blood clotting issue?
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angevil53
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 7:48 PM
I just have to ask, how did you have six m/c in 8ish months and a late term m/c at about 4 months?
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truelyred2
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 7:53 PM

 I am sorry for your losses. Have you spoken to your doctor? Usually after 3 they will run genetic tests to try and figure out why this happens to you. Also are the other m/c more of chemicals? I am not trying to be mean or anything just want to help. I know you said the one loss was a farther term baby and that is, wow I have no words for how horrible I feel for you, but if the others are bfp then a few days later loss, I could suggest waiting to test? I'm sorry your story has upset me very much and I cannot find the right words to help you.

Dani1009
by Silver Member on Mar. 28, 2011 at 7:58 PM
I am so very sorry for your losses. My heart feels broken for you, I can't imagine the pain you've been through. I have two bits of advice, but maybe a doctor has already discussed them with you. It could be that your progesterone levels are too low to support a pregnancy. That problem would usually result in early miscarriages. The same is true of clothing disorders, such as antiphispholipid antibody syndrome. Treatments for these disorders can be difficult, but can also be as simple as taking a baby aspirin every day, which helps blood flow to the uterus and prevent clotting. I take a baby aspirin everyday after ovulation. I wish you the very best, please let us know if you receive any medical advice from a doctor. Take care, and know that you are in my thoughts.
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MommyMcConnell
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 7:58 PM
I think with that many m/c you should see a specialist. That is not normal at all.

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army09wife
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 8:34 PM

 

edited: had to rewrite bc it i had it all worded confusing (i think anyways)

(2 of my miscarrys have been chemical preg.) I have  my very 1st mc i was preg with twins so i consider that two miscarrys bc i didnt lose one baby but two my last was with my 19wk baby not all has been in 8 mths but most, i got pregnant back to back with two of them

 

and i havent talked to anyone bc im to scared... i have two children & i have a cousin that has no children and has tried and tried... she has some time of problem wwhen she gets pregnant that her and dh blood doesnt mix or something and they dont find out they or pg untill its to late... she has to take a shot as soon as she finds out

she tells me im selfish bc i have two healthy children now and she cant have any.... but thats beside the point...

 

BTW whats does a baby asprin do?

angevil53
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 8:39 PM

if you have two kids then possible rh factors? and i would def check progesterone.

army09wife
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 8:43 PM

 progesterone?

Quoting angevil53:

if you have two kids then possible rh factors? and i would def check progesterone.

 

LisaUtley
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 8:59 PM

if you have progestrone issues (hormone needed to keep a baby in womb), than your body will not relize it is or is still pregnante and will start your normal period.

I know this cause my dr. talked to me about it after my misscarriage. And now as soon as i get pregnante i have to call him and will start progestron supplements.

 

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