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TTC - Trying to Conceive TTC - Trying to Conceive

vent! sorry if i offend anyone im mad as hell!

Posted by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 11:48 AM
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So my day has went like this.
woke up to see dh on the couch because I upset him last night.
Got a bfn on a frer telling me I'm not pregnant.
Dd broke dh glasses that he left on the floor next to our bed...
Dh flipped out on me because I "let" her break his new 500$ glaSses! Yes because that's what I wanted... Break them peanut...
I called my sister and I guess my mom who I thought I could trust was talking all sorts of shit about me when she went to visit about how we should just stop trying because its not happening and we are throwing money down the drain! So after I got off the phone with her I laid dd down for a nap and come to find a text message from my friend that reads "rick and I are pregnant! We are due September 4th 2012! Hope you have a good weekend! Are you expecting yet?"
That message put me over the edge and I just started crying! Julie said back in November she wanted to start trying but wasn't sure how rick would react! Well I guess the first month is the charm for most! Its hard enough seeing all the bfp in the ttc and long term ttc groups but to have my best friend who knows we are having issues tell me just made my day suck!
I just don't get it! Everyone is pregnant but yet people still feel the need to update 5 days in a row that their test is getting darker! That's great I'm happy you're happy but now it seems like you think you're better them everyone! And the advice to stop wasting money. To not go to the specialist because god has a plan and we don't know what it is! For someone to say "you had complications with faith are you sure you want to risk it being on meds you make get more then you bargeNed for! --yeah that came from my sil who is pregnant first try and pregnant with baby #4!
Now I know this is long but I had to get it off my chest! I have had a bad day so let's hope it gets better. Dh and I are off together till Tuesday! Let's hope he is in a good mood cuz right now I just want to cry!
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MamaSusieQ045
by SusieQ on Jan. 7, 2012 at 11:53 AM
Aww honey I'm so sorry your having such a rough day :( some days it seems like when it rains it pours! But keep your head up it will get better!
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ericaann86
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 11:56 AM
Like in a way I hope its hormones but then I think, I couldn't be so lucky!


Quoting MamaSusieQ045:

Aww honey I'm so sorry your having such a rough day :( some days it seems like when it rains it pours! But keep your head up it will get better!

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Maria_Peanut
by Silver Member on Jan. 7, 2012 at 11:57 AM
Sorry :( Sometimes life just sucks , trust me i know.


Everything will be better before you know it ! Just keep going...

Buckets of baby dust to you :)

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EAzizM
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 12:00 PM
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I totally agree!! I mean, do you REALLY have to keep posting pics of your BFP?? Go to the pregnancy after ttc forum with that. We have enough stress and I think it is selfish for them to be like OMG look at it! Its getting darker! We get the fuckin point.
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Lucky.Girl
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 12:01 PM

This...I'm so sorry :(

Quoting MamaSusieQ045:

Aww honey I'm so sorry your having such a rough day :( some days it seems like when it rains it pours! But keep your head up it will get better!


mommymary6507
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 12:04 PM

*hugs* hope your day gets better!

leandrat
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 12:05 PM
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Omg I soooo agree this group is badddd for the whole let me post 30 times my bfp pics and progression etc the other ttc group is MUCH better about keeping that bullshit on lock down that's what due date groups are for
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MrsB0311
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 12:08 PM

 I'm sending hugs your way girl.  I hate to hear you had such a bad day...and I do understand where you're coming from.  It can be very hard -- and some days definitely just hit us harder than others -- but do keep in mind that even though you see a lot of BFP's on here...there are many more you're not seeing from our fellow TTC ladies who are getting all the BFN's that we are.  I don't know about you, but when I realized that I really wasn't alone in having problems getting pregnant it did help some.  I think only you and DH can choose whether you continue TTC or not, and you will always hear other people with their words of "wisdom".  Trust me, I know that sucks!  Between you, DH and your doctor...that's the business of making that decision.  Try to chalk it up to a bad day and remember even though you see all those BFP posts, you are not alone.  Sending hugs and lots of baby dust your way!!!

amc103
by Silver Member on Jan. 7, 2012 at 12:11 PM

 Im sorry you are having a crappy day. I know what you mean. I can relate totally. I bet tomrrow will be a better day for you. :-) It will be a fresh start. This day can go to hell! LOL! I had a MC in December and come to find out the girl I work with, (we're the only 2 in the company, so its not like I can avoid her) is pregnant-due the same month I would have been due. I took a month off after it happened (I found out baby had passed on the 8th of December, but my body never passed it on its own...had a D&C third week in december) and when I sent her an email to talk about returning, she told me. UGGGGG. I go back next week. Shoot me now please. :-(

ericaann86
by on Jan. 7, 2012 at 12:13 PM
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I will admit I have seen a couple posts with like 4 different brands and an opk over the time frame of like 6dpo to 18 of tests getting darker. Its neat to look at them all and see what one picked it up first but to keep putting up photos is uncalled for! And then to say it was our second month trying! Good for you!! I'm still trying!


Quoting leandrat:

Omg I soooo agree this group is badddd for the whole let me post 30 times my bfp pics and progression etc the other ttc group is MUCH better about keeping that bullshit on lock down that's what due date groups are for

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