Hi ladies, so my AF due date was the 12th and when it didnt show up yesterday, I kinda got too hopefuly that this was it, but seems this morning I'm seeing some bleeding about to start, this is only our 2 month TTC but it is very sad for some reason, I didnt even do the test yesterday just b/c I wanted to give it a day and now doesnt look like I'll need to do a test...I dont feel like working at all now :( its very heartbreaking...I guess we try another month, but just dont understand what more we can do..I mean this month we thought we did everything right...ugh...:-(
Hey..thanks for the reply, yea just takes a toll on you I guess..well first month it was just sort of BD every other day thats it, this last month, I bought an OPK and used that to track when I was O'd and had BD based on that, I just signed up at FertilityFriend as well so will start creating my charts there also for next cycle. We have been married for 5 years so I'm sort of getting scared as well I guess since its not happening right away that we may have issues, just dont want to think about it yet..
Charting your temps on FF will give you a great insight into your cycles. Perhaps there is an easily fixed explanation for why you aren't getting pregnant (like you think you are Oing one day, but really aren't Oing for a few days so your BDing isn't timed right).
Don't worry about all the what-ifs now. Focus on finding out what your cycle is doing & go from there.
Good luck!
you hav only 20% chances of conceiving even doing everything right n on time...so don't lose hope u are just 2nd month TTC...here are some ladies who get prego even after 48, 50 months try....me too having 7th month TTC with no luck....a lot of baby dust to your way 
and a lot of prayers so u and me get our BFP soon 
i get it ive been ttc for 4 months now n nuttin my af should come around on the 21 8 more days when af shows up it makes u feel like y not u i heard of all these stirys of one night stands and w.e n they get prego sooo fast but when he time it right u will be bless something soooo amazing a baby thats what makes me keep goin lol but baby ust to u hope u get ur bfp soon glkeep trying
Thanks everyone, def made me feel a little better, I know I hear all these stories of everyone trying so hard and TTC for months, just scary at this point for me, but I guess it is true, it will happen when its time, thanks again for sharing!! Very helpful, really like this site to be able to talk to you guys!
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- vd82
on Feb. 13, 2012 at 9:17 AM