So scared :/ kinda long please read give advice nothing neg!!

[ashlienicole72]

S/o and i have been ttc for 2yrs now. last month i started clomid and finally o. Im on 50mg again this month days 3-7. This month i have also been takin one a day womans vit. Along with a prenatal and also eating all the healthy wonderful food that increases everything. However this month during sex for some reason its felt good(sorry tmi) but its hurt every time. Heres where im scared, im driving myself so crazy over all this, trying to get everything so right with foods, things to make sure i do get everything right ive been reading books apon books. I came across ectopic pregnancy and how it can be caused by fertility drugs so now im so scared that im gonna get pregnant but then miscarry or have an ectopic preg and im trying to avoid that. im so scared over that and just never becoming a mommy. i dont think i could handle a miscarriage, and idk what else to do to concieve:(

[hypnautica]

From what I am reading you take a womens one a day vitamin as well as prenatal? You should only be taking the prenatals because that has everything you need and it is possible you are getting to much vitamins. We have been ttc for 5yrs now and recently due to our new doc have started taking other things besides prenatals. I am taking FertilityBlend for women, fish oil which helps absorb the vitamins and minerals better into your body and coq10 which helps improve egg quality. Also DH has been put on some stuff to help him out as well. Have you had any testing done on you and your s/o to see if anything was wrong? I know you are on Clomid but wasnt sure if any testing was done on you or your s/o. I was put in Clomid at 1st with no testing so thats why I asked. As far as a miscarrying or etopic try not to worry about them because im sure as you know stress is not good for you and makes trying to get pregnant harder. Everything will be fine. GL to you and hope you get a BFP soon. Tons of baby dust~

[TabathaDavis]

 First....RELAX! Second....you can't prevent a mc or ectopic pregnacy! If it is going to happen it will. You will find a way to work through it too. I am a firm believer that what you are delt with in life is only things you can handle. Don't stress over trying so hard to get pregnant. It will happen when it is the right time. Good Luck!  

[mum-to-a-cutie]

Aw hun, it is scary but try not to worry, as far as I know you can't 'make' an ectopic happen, it's just natures way, nothing you could do. Even though you have been trying for so long, the thought of falling pregnant and carrying a child is scary, it's only natural to feel that way. Hope things settle for you soon and you get that longed for bfp xxx

[mum-to-a-cutie]

Aw hun, it is scary but try not to worry, as far as I know you can't 'make' an ectopic happen, it's just natures way, nothing you could do. Even though you have been trying for so long, the thought of falling pregnant and carrying a child is scary, it's only natural to feel that way. Hope things settle for you soon and you get that longed for bfp xxx

[ashlienicole72]

Thank you ladies :) yes we have had all the tests done hes fine and only thing wrong with me was i wasnt o normally my progestorone levels were low which is why i was put on clomid and it seems to be working because my levels were at 19 last month after i o. So im just hoping i can get a bfp i had yet another BFN last month.

[ashlienicole72]

Your so kind:) thank you hun!!

Quoting mum-to-a-cutie:

Aw hun, it is scary but try not to worry, as far as I know you can't 'make' an ectopic happen, it's just natures way, nothing you could do. Even though you have been trying for so long, the thought of falling pregnant and carrying a child is scary, it's only natural to feel that way. Hope things settle for you soon and you get that longed for bfp xxx

[truelyred2]

I agree about the vitamins. You can actual over dose on vitamins. As for the pain, if it is vaginal or low most likely bladder or yeast infection. If it's higher up, most likely it's your ovaries because they are ovulating. Could possibly be over simulation of the ovaries or hyper ovulation. Calm down. More women have ectopic pregnancies that are not on fertility drugs than ones that are. Also clomid while a fertility aide is not usually grouped on with other fertility drugs when they discuss side affects because it is a mild drug.

[xxBiteMExx]

I know it's scary... I sometimes worry "what if" cause I've been TTC baby #1 for 5 years. But at the end of the day, all you can do is pray and put everything in Gods hands.

[ashlienicole72]

Thank you girls:) ya its def not yeast inf or anything im pretty sure its my ovaries. And yes at end of day i only do pray and hope everything will be good and i can get that lil precious baby we all want :)