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can someone encourge me Please and gives me hope ?

Posted by on Feb. 13, 2012 at 4:56 PM
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Today is either 7 or 8 dpo for me and I tested and got a BFN, Do you think I am out for this month ? I am on day 25 of 29 day cycle so I still got 5 more days to test, I should be getting my period either on the 18th or the 19th of this month. Please please give me your opinion, I am feeling so down right now :(

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BabyDust77
by Gold Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:06 PM

Oh no, hun. It is still waaaay to early in the game. I don't suggest testing till 10 to 12 dpo. When I got my bfps they were faint, and it was 12 dpo. I mc both though. Keep in mind baby can implant anywhere from 6 to 12 dpo. You are  by no means out...not until af shows, and that's if she shows. G luck

EAzizM
by Erica =) on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:11 PM

Its def too early. dont get down I am 9dpo and supposed to get af on the 19th and I am fighting the urge to test because I know it is too early. Gl! =)

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maryah84
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:13 PM

Thank you so much for your kind reply, it really made my day, I don't usually test till the day of af coming but I just got weak this month. as time goes by I start to get weak, it is our 8th month trying for baby number 1 and as the months go I get scared :(

Quoting BabyDust77:

Oh no, hun. It is still waaaay to early in the game. I don't suggest testing till 10 to 12 dpo. When I got my bfps they were faint, and it was 12 dpo. I mc both though. Keep in mind baby can implant anywhere from 6 to 12 dpo. You are  by no means out...not until af shows, and that's if she shows. G luck


BabyDust77
by Gold Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:16 PM

I know...it is so hard to wait. Every month I ALWAYS give in early. Even though I never got a BFP till 11 or 12dpo, I still tested at 9dpo last month. It was only because I had a pretty big dip with a spike after 6 dpo (same at 12 dpo.) Weve been trying since july 2010 with two losses.

vd82
by Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:16 PM

aww I know exactly what you mean, its just our 2nd month TTC for our 1'st baby too and my AF showed up today, so if you still have 5 days left, wait for AF or the lack of it and then see how it goes, this is a great group to talk to get some cheering, hope your rest of the day goes well, lots of Luck to you!!

maryah84
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:16 PM

Thank you so much for your encouragement, I am just so desperate to get that bfp. baby dust to you and hopefully we get that bfp soon :)

Quoting EAzizM:

Its def too early. dont get down I am 9dpo and supposed to get af on the 19th and I am fighting the urge to test because I know it is too early. Gl! =)


BabyDust77
by Gold Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:22 PM

having chocolateI know its early, but hopefully this makes you smile. I love these sweetpeas.

maryah84
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:22 PM

Thank you so much, I am sorry af showed her ugly face to you but good luck for the next month :)

Quoting vd82:

aww I know exactly what you mean, its just our 2nd month TTC for our 1'st baby too and my AF showed up today, so if you still have 5 days left, wait for AF or the lack of it and then see how it goes, this is a great group to talk to get some cheering, hope your rest of the day goes well, lots of Luck to you!!


EAzizM
by Erica =) on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:25 PM

Thankshun and lots of baby dust to you too! =)

Quoting maryah84:

Thank you so much for your encouragement, I am just so desperate to get that bfp. baby dust to you and hopefully we get that bfp soon :)

Quoting EAzizM:

Its def too early. dont get down I am 9dpo and supposed to get af on the 19th and I am fighting the urge to test because I know it is too early. Gl! =)



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maryah84
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:26 PM

Thank you so much, it put a big smile in my face, Happy Valentines day to you too :) Hope you get your bfp soon, I am really sorry for your losses, hopefully the next baby sticks, I'll keep you in my prayers :)
Lots of baby dust to you :)

Quoting BabyDust77:

having chocolateI know its early, but hopefully this makes you smile. I love these sweetpeas.


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