VENT!

[Kate009]

So one of my friends just called and told me that her and her boyfriend are pregnant! Note they have only been together for a little over a month and wernt trying at all! Ugh! I want to be happt for her but crap! I have been TTC for 7 months now and now she tells me she is pregnant! Neither one of them have jobs and its just so frustrating to hear her be soo happy when she wasnt even.trying and that she isnt even ready for one! I know I need to be supportive but I dont think I can right now! This make 3 of my friends pregnant now and none of them trying at all!!

[jewelzs2]

 I know it is frustrating to hear especially with the bug going on with everyone around you. The only thing that I can say is keep your head up and keep moving forward..Your day will come and you will be sooo overjoyed. Just try to be as supportive as you can. My belief is that God has a higher power than any BBT or chart so once he feels it is the right time to bless u with that little bundle of joy it will be all well worth the wait.

 

[ABCS_Chambo]

I totally understand this! Just smile and act like it doesn't hurt.. maybe now she will grow up.. hugs!

[jrobertson20]

 So sorry.  I know your pain.  Last month (our first month TTC) my friend/neighbor found out she was pregnant and she was even on the pill.  Now yesterday another friend told me that she was pregnant and they weren't trying.  I want this so bad and it's hard to understand how it's so easy for people who are not even trying.  I'm trying to be happy but at the same time it kind of feels like a little knife is jabbing me.  One day it WILL be us.  Tons of baby dust.

[jewelzs2]

 I have felt more love since joining this site than I have from my own best friend whom I have known for years.....WOW!!! Awesome group of ladies here

[Dmpeterson]

It will get better. My youngest sister and her dh got pregnant a month after kind of trying and we are on cycle number 17 now coz af just started today.

Just be happy for her. I know it is hard. Especially when you want it so badly. When we finally get our bfp's we will really be able to appreciate them. That day is coming.

Good luck and tons of baby dust.

[SatyrsMom]

It seems odd yes BUT if they can di it YOU can! We ALL can!

[nikkifam5]

Yeah story of my life at the moment.. all my best gf's are preggers right now.. not the best time for a few of them..but none the less I'm happy for them ( well happy for them but sad for myself ) we have been TTC for 13 months.. we have 3 children and never had a problem TTC but I guess the older you get ( and I'm not old but I'm older ..26 ) the more your body changes... but hey look at it this way.. we get to have all the fun trying ! Good luck mama, and I pray you get your bfp soon!