what would your family think?

[mama728]

i have a question.. has anyone ever felt that they know their family will be upset if you get pregnant again. because with our 1st it was the wrong timing cause we just got engaged and i started college and everyone was upset. but they got over it. now our only issue is money!! but it doesnt matter how long we wait there will always be money issues. My husband and i feel very strong about wanting another,

[EAzizM]

You shouldn't care about what others think. Its your life and if you think you can do it, that's all that matters. We haven't even told my family we are ttc because its none of their business, really.

[mama728]

Ya your completely right. Thanks

Quoting EAzizM:

You shouldn't care about what others think. Its your life and if you think you can do it, that's all that matters. We haven't even told my family we are ttc because its none of their business, really.

[kajira]

no. we spent 5 years getting pregnant with our last and our families are rooting for us to get pregnant again with out that much money spent, or time between pregnancies!

[PrOuDmAmAoF2g1b]

We haven't told anyone but my dad that we are TTC. our families bash us constantly cuz we are so young & have "so many kids already" I'm almost 29 & DH is 32 & we have 4 kids ages 2,4,6,8 - but what they don't get is WE raise our kids, not the government, DH is the only one working for 6 years now & we aren't rich but we live comfortably. Yea we struggled our butts off when I got preg w/ our 2nd but that was almost 7 years ago & our lives have changed drastically for the better. My dad is the only one that knows because I'm such a daddy's girl that he knows when somethings going on thats bothering me (ie TTC for over a year) he is very supportive of us & very proud of us. I have 6 brothers & sisters & not a single one of them know we are TTC nor will they know when we are preg, they aren't in my life for a reason & its for the best. If you don't feel you have family support then they don't need to know :) *Sry this was so long lol I tend to ramble on :p

[chrissydan]

Its really your life and if family can't support you then that's their choice. they dont get to pick and choose how your live your life as long as you think you can do it then so be it