Why not give ur baby to me

[vev.84]

A yaer an half my sister got pregant. She hide and lied about beindag pg to our mom. til she was about 8 1/2 mons pg. Then after she comes out and says the baby already being apoted by our cousins and his wife. It tore me up I beged her to chage her mide and to give me the baby. I text and siad why cant I have her I would be good for her and promise me if u was pg again the baby the baby would go to cuz u didnt want no more babies. this want she siad too bad she already being aptoed out so stop crying about it. That just broke my heart more. She know that I was trying to have baby for 3yrs. My sister give her baby to a 35 yr old gma which is our cousin. I shoild been the first one she should of asked to care for her baby. my cousin drove my sister to our moms house told about the aption. They told my mom that she would still get to see the baby,get pics get baby and be there for the birth of the baby. Our mom was kinda better but the unthinkable happned mom didnt get to see the baby be born and my sister wiated 4 days ll our mom that she had the baby, black and white pics that they printed off the pc

And seen her a few times for about 15 mins. My sisters duaghter is with fand they keep her way form us. My dad is dieing of cancer and still dont bing her around us. I wanted the so she would know us and cuz I would of been best thing for her. I think of her every day people tellto stop talkking abuot her and forget about her. I will not do it cuz she is my niece. my sister that give her daughter a way just had onther baby. so ........

am I being selfish about my sisters choice or did she make the wrong choise.

No one understands the way fill and deal with this I hope I get help with

[vev.84]

So I hurt

[fulloflife175]

I barely understood most of what you said but adoption would be a hard thing to do maybe your sister felt it would be to hard giving her to you as your her sister and maybe to close. I can't imagine what it must be like to give your child up for adoption but I'm sure your sister felt it was the right thing. Im sorry that your hurting

[vev.84]

But if it both her so much why would she hurry up and get pg 4 mons affter that sorry imm not hmgood typeing or writinv

[Rebekah8787]

Sry to hear that I think that she should of asked you first and I think she should push for you guys to be in her life too the more people to love a child the better good luck hun my heart would be broken too

[sbreece]

As bad as I want to read this..I can't. I can't understand a thing you are saying. Spell check is a free feature and surprisingly easy to use. Just saying..

[sbreece]

As bad as I want to read this..I can't. I can't understand a thing you are saying. Spell check is a free feature and surprisingly easy to use. Just saying..

[ttcforbaby1]

Can you use spellcheck next time lol I didn't understand alot of this, sry your going through that though and GOD will take care of her for her actions. Hugs and hope you get your BFP soon!

[lilmama8408]

Your post is like impossible to read.

Sadly tho its up to your sister who she adopts the child to and nobody else gets a say. Being a fellow family member you'd think they'd come around tho.

[mama91605]

I understand you are hurt. But it was your sisters choice and I don't know if it right of you to say you would have been the best for her. I understand you want a baby but this baby is your sister and there must be a reason she gave her to your cousin. I would be heart broke if I couldn't see my nieces but if that was the choice my sister made I would support her.

[iluvsgtLangley]

This.

Quoting mama91605:

I understand you are hurt. But it was your sisters choice and I don't know if it right of you to say you would have been the best for her. I understand you want a baby but this baby is your sister and there must be a reason she gave her to your cousin. I would be heart broke if I couldn't see my nieces but if that was the choice my sister made I would support her.