ok..embarrasing question..

[vd82]

ok guys..so I've been TTC for 2 months and when we BD, some of his mucus(sperm) always comes out of me, is that normal?  I mean he keeps it in for couple secs and then when he pulls out, stuff just starts coming out of me..I've been meaning to ask but its too embarassing for me...:-)  anyway...we're on to the 3rd month now so i figured I better get some advice and make sure we're not doing something wrong here...:)...thanks in advance!!

[momma72610]

I am pretty sure it is normal. The exact thing happens to me so either we are both weird or completely normal! We to are on our 3rd month! Good Luck and baby dust!

[PrOuDmAmAoF2g1b]

As soon as he pulls out lay on your back & put a pillow under your butt to elevate your hips to keep it in! That's what I do lol - oh & btw I've learned very quickly that NO question or comment should feel embarrassing or TMI in this group :) As I was told, when someone asks something "embarrassing" you not only get an answer for yourself but for those that are too shy to post themselves, so ur helping others by asking! :)

[vd82]

Thanks ladies for replying, I do put a pillow under my butt after we're done, but sometimes its too late, stuff is already coming out of me...maybe ill try a pillow during bd as well and see if that makes a diff...

[PrOuDmAmAoF2g1b]

Also try kegel exercises :)

[tanzi.farhan]

you can use instead soft-cups after BD to keep the semen inside you...they are actually menstrual cups....but can be used for this prupose too :)

[vd82]

ok just looked up kegel exercises..I could do that :)

 

What are soft cups??

[Kachetes]

Its not embarassing , but i understand how you feel in askingg :)
It happened to me also at the beginning of our ttc & i thought something was wrong with me .. well theres nothing wrong with hat .

So heres my advice , after intercourse make sure he stays in for about a couple of secs afterwards make sure he pulls out not to fast , then put some pillows under your butt so can be elevated . & another thing that would help is elevating your legs . What i do is put some pillows under me then put my legs up against the wall :)
GL & hope it helps !

[tanzi.farhan]

go and check this address:

http://www.softcup.com/

Quoting vd82:

ok just looked up kegel exercises..I could do that :)

What are soft cups??

[BeautyFromPain]

Its normal happens to me too. Even if a little came out dont worry a lot stayed in.

[SatyrsMom]

Sometimes it is both of your stuff coming out. It is normal just lay down on your back with your legs up ot with a pillow or roll unser your hips.