My husband and I are having a lil spat. We have been trying to have a baby for 3 years now. We go pregnant in nov and lost it in dec. No we have 3 kids between us ALL born in Jan. Mason jan 12 hailey jan 15 and brice jan 23. Now if I get pregnant this month my due date will be the same day as brices due date jan 10th. (he was 2 weeks late) thats 4 kids in jan and then xmas before that. Mas and Hailey dont live with us we send them gift cards so brice gets more becasue hes in house. Does that make sense. We dont get to see his kids at all. So hes upset that I still want to try this month. Im upset because I want a baby. I said we can do the kids parties together and on their birthdays do a family dinner and cake. I dont like its a big deal .And if its meant to be its meant to be. Am I being selfish??? Im planning on pulling out all stops trying preseed and softcups and anything else that may help. Is 4 kids in one month to much? Am i crazy for still wanting to try. Would you wait an extra month??