Anyone battle with Husband's with low sex drives?? TMI
I know some of you are blessed with Husbands willing to bed 2 or 3 times a day...more if you let them. But I want to know how many of you battle with Husbands with no sex drives???
My Hubby and I have been together since I was 14 and he was 17. We got married as soon as I turned 18. Got preggo right after we got married. My whole pregnancy was rough because I was adjusting to married life with raging pregnancy hormones. It was almost immediately my Husband and I began to fight about his lack of sex drive. He never was interested, I always initiated. I felt unwanted, wondered if he didn't love me, or if he was cheating, it was an awful time. It came pretty apparently fairly fast that it was none of the above he just didn't have the urge to have sex like most men. Unfortunately its still an on going battle in our relationship. And I must say its gotten easier after each additional child because I was so tired that sex once a month was acceptable. Well now that my kids are getting older, and I am ready for another, and I am getting my sex drive back, I am battling this issue again. He just never gets interested. I mean I am lucky to have sex once a week. I just wish there was something we could do to increase his sex drive...and trust me there is NOTHING I can do. I have tried all kinds of things to spice it up thinking it was me, but he just doesn't care for sex. I hear women talk about their men masturbating...Umm my Hubby NEVER does this...EVER! I could never use sex as a tool to get what I want LOL. We just dont have it like that. And it does make TTC harder because I cant just say well we will bed all week...He could make it one or two days and then he would be over it. You ladies dont know how often I dream of a day in with my Hubby just laid in bed making love all day long enjoying eachother. It would never happen for me :( Ladies who have men with sex drives, your blessed...you really are!
Anyway so ladies, how do you handle a Hubby with no sex drive? And how does it effect TTC?