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TTC - Trying to Conceive TTC - Trying to Conceive

I am out...Forever

Posted by on May. 6, 2012 at 4:29 PM
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I really thought this was our month, but AF showed me I was wrong today. We done several different things to get pregnant this month, but it didn't work.  I have decided that after 4.5 years that God must have different plans for me.  I have really prayed about it and God has given me an accepting heart. It is time to move on. I wish all you ladies lots of luck and hope that you get your BFP VERY VERY soon.  Baby dust to all.

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TheyAreMyLoves
by Shantelle on May. 6, 2012 at 4:50 PM

I'm sorry you've had such a rough 4.5 years TTC..but i'm glad you are finding peace with your decision to move on.

good luck to you.

ShesALady
by on May. 6, 2012 at 4:53 PM
I'm sorry! I think after 3 years of trying and no luck we are going to look into adoption. I would love to give a baby a good life that they may not of had the chance to have. We still have some time to try, but it's been a hard road. Good luck in your life and you never know what God has planned.
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xxMissThingxx
by on May. 6, 2012 at 4:59 PM
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notgivinguphope
by Bronze Member on May. 6, 2012 at 5:15 PM
I'm sorry to hear this I knowfirst hand how tough long term ttc can be I was trying for 6 years and after about 2years of design not taking me seriously about fertility issues because of my age I finally met a met Dr who did I've done I've ad now am 4months pregnant. Turned out I have terrible tube damage from an ectopic. So basically what I'm saying is regardless how long youve been trying don't loose hope seek out for help if u need too from fertility specialist etc. Because it does happen :)keep ur chin up
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akushniroff
by on May. 6, 2012 at 6:25 PM

Thank you for your encouraging words. We have sought out help from my OB/GYN. The problem is my husband's guys don't swim well. They basically said that if the clomid didn't work our only option is IVF.  I can't afford IVF, and have issue with it because they can't guarantee that I will get pregnant. They told us at least 3 tries at $15000 each and we only had 60% chance.  To me that could be a lot of money wasted that I don't have. 

akushniroff
by on May. 6, 2012 at 6:26 PM

See my reply. Thanks so much for the encouraging words.

Quoting notgivinguphope:

I'm sorry to hear this I knowfirst hand how tough long term ttc can be I was trying for 6 years and after about 2years of design not taking me seriously about fertility issues because of my age I finally met a met Dr who did I've done I've ad now am 4months pregnant. Turned out I have terrible tube damage from an ectopic. So basically what I'm saying is regardless how long youve been trying don't loose hope seek out for help if u need too from fertility specialist etc. Because it does happen :)keep ur chin up


HisB0107
by Billine on May. 6, 2012 at 6:28 PM

So sorry hun : (  Have you thought about adoption at all? DH and I plan to after we're done... and possibly even fostering later on.

bebe42081
by on May. 6, 2012 at 6:28 PM
HUGS! I'm sorry you've come to the end of your journey...I wish you the best of luck with where ever life takes you!
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akushniroff
by on May. 6, 2012 at 6:42 PM


Quoting HisB0107:

So sorry hun : (  Have you thought about adoption at all? DH and I plan to after we're done... and possibly even fostering later on.

We did fostering and had a HORRIBLE experience.  We have thought about adoption long and hard, but not real sure if we want to go through that heart break either. Only time will tell what God has in store.

yas1985
by Bronze Member on May. 6, 2012 at 6:51 PM
Hey luv, i certainly know how u feel. 4 and a half yrs for us aswell. It's been a long and exhausting journey. I don't bother symptom spotting anymore, gives me false hopes then af comes along every month. I believe god knows what's best for us. Never lose hope though, always keep faith. :)
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