I temp, check my CM, CP, take prenantals and asprin and I use OPKs. We BD every other day and we have even used Preseed a few times. My DH doesn't want to go to the doctor just yet. I have to have a pap in June so we wants to wait until then to talk to the doctor but he doesn't want to go to a specialist until we have been TTC for 2 years without getting pregnant. So, what else can I do at home to increase my chances? I do lay still for 15 mins after sex to give the sperm time to find their way. I thought about using the instead (sp) cups but I am not sure if they actually help or not. I don't want to use anything that will hurt my chances of concieveing. Is there anything that you ladies do that could increase my chances?