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I can't believe I'm actually crying *mini vent*

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I'm sure it's because I'm so worn out and stressed with work but another friend of mine made the announcement that they're pregnant and I am literally crying. I feel like an idiot getting this upset, but it's just like a dagger to the heart every time. It's just so damn frustrating! I can only paint a smile on my face for so long before I feel like I'm going to end up snapping.

You ladies are the only people I know who will understand, so thanks for letting me get it out.
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by on May. 9, 2012 at 9:16 PM
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twyliatepeka
by on May. 9, 2012 at 10:32 PM

i feel ya. my sister-in-law has a 5week old baby. they were not even trying to have a baby when she got pregnant & we had been for over a year when she found out she was pregnant.

hugs

brittani
by on May. 9, 2012 at 10:52 PM
Oh Hun I did too. Everyone around me was pregnant. I was so upset and why not me. Its really hard. It got easier for me after a while but every now and then I still get upset and cry and its OK.
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miqdanixo
by on May. 9, 2012 at 10:57 PM
I did my crying yesterday. Not getting pregnant feels like I have no control over what goes on with my own body. This seems to come so easy for everyone else. Even people that don't want a child. It has been getting to me too lately. I hope we all get our bfps soon. :)
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beadingmom17
by Bronze Member on May. 10, 2012 at 7:50 AM
Exactly! After 3 years of TTC it just hurts that much more :/ And yes, I hope for BFPs for all of us soon!!!

Quoting miqdanixo:

I did my crying yesterday. Not getting pregnant feels like I have no control over what goes on with my own body. This seems to come so easy for everyone else. Even people that don't want a child. It has been getting to me too lately. I hope we all get our bfps soon. :)
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MasterAtArms
by on May. 10, 2012 at 8:52 AM

 We all feel this way sometimes. ((Hugs))

MLCS0820
by on May. 10, 2012 at 8:55 AM
Girl I know EXACTLY how you feel!!! I'm the same way! I have 6 people I know pregnant right now...and 3 who just had babies...It sucks!!! GL to you...hang in there! :)

Quoting beadingmom17:

I'm sure it's because I'm so worn out and stressed with work but another friend of mine made the announcement that they're pregnant and I am literally crying. I feel like an idiot getting this upset, but it's just like a dagger to the heart every time. It's just so damn frustrating! I can only paint a smile on my face for so long before I feel like I'm going to end up snapping.



You ladies are the only people I know who will understand, so thanks for letting me get it out.
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tarakay0417
by on May. 10, 2012 at 9:17 AM
I know how you feel. Just about every one I know has either gotten pregnant or had a baby in the last 8 months. I am happy for them, but when will it be my turn? Sending you lots of hugs and baby dust!
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TS9509
by on May. 10, 2012 at 9:20 AM
I know how you feel. Every time I see something on my fb feed about pregnancy I get so mad. I've cried and cried so many times. I'm happy for them but at the same time I'm like why them, they weren't trying or can't support a child but my DH and I are trying and can support a child on our own.
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Dmpeterson
by on May. 10, 2012 at 9:32 AM
You're definitely not alone. In just a few short months we will be at 2 years TTC. I couldn't do it without all of the ladies here. I'm constantly reminded that I'm not alone here.

I get soooo tired of everyone else getting BFP's and not us. I'll never tell them that though. I'm always happy for them, but I feel so inadequate as a woman because of all of this.

My kid sister who was only kinda trying is now more than half way through her pregnancy. I kick myself for thinking maybe we could get pregnant and go through it together. But nope. Best I can figure is this is karma for being hard on my body when I was younger.

But just keep going. You're never alone. Hugs!!
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tanzi.farhan
by on May. 10, 2012 at 10:06 AM

yes... and i feel it happens to those mostly who were not trying...and got it accidently....so it means stress is the main barrier....but yessss it makes me cry every time hugs

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