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Porn & Masterbating?

Posted by on May. 28, 2012 at 6:50 PM
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Does your husband masterbate alot, & loves porn? Does this frustrate you?
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TTC2Long
by on May. 28, 2012 at 6:53 PM
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No. I made it very clear to him early on how porn makes me feel. He respects my wishes.
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JennM81
by on May. 28, 2012 at 6:56 PM
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No porn in our house. We both disagree with it but I know when we would fight a lot or after delivery of our first he would masterbate.
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fostermomoftwo
by on May. 28, 2012 at 6:56 PM

doesnt masterbate at all, we bd all the time, whenever one of us wants it. and no he doesnt watch porn, hes the one who told me that its too fake and over rated. he gets turned on when i practically just walk by, so no we dont need it and that def doesnt frusterate me!

if he wanted to do that he still wouldnt cause he respects me and our marriage.

eesmommy
by Silver Member on May. 28, 2012 at 6:58 PM
Well put:)


Quoting fostermomoftwo:

doesnt masterbate at all, we bd all the time, whenever one of us wants it. and no he doesnt watch porn, hes the one who told me that its too fake and over rated. he gets turned on when i practically just walk by, so no we dont need it and that def doesnt frusterate me!


if he wanted to do that he still wouldnt cause he respects me and our marriage.


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Married28
by on May. 28, 2012 at 7:00 PM
Yeah.. The masterbating part doesnt bother me, just the porn!
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jessiesgirl88
by on May. 28, 2012 at 7:01 PM
honestly my fiance doesnt masterbate and we watch porn together sometimes it doesnt bother me but everyone is different
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bebe42081
by on May. 28, 2012 at 7:06 PM
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We sometimes watch porn together & honestly I could care less if he watched it on his own or masterbated to it. It doesn't bother me because I know it's not affecting TTC or our relationship in any way.
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TheyAreMyLoves
by Shantelle on May. 28, 2012 at 7:16 PM
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he did 'bate a lot before we were TTC but now he saves it all for me.

He's not too much into porn. i probably watch it more than he does.

he can watch all the porn and 'bate all he wants otherwise. as long as he isn't going overboard it's none of my business.

Dmpeterson
by on May. 28, 2012 at 7:19 PM
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Lol we both watch porn and masturbate and we both still have really healthy sex drives besides that. In my opinion all that matters is that we are faithful to each other and satisfy one another's needs. It's kept us both very happy.
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MrsParsons11
by Nicole on May. 28, 2012 at 8:52 PM
I currently caught my dh ( at 5 am) watching porn and getting ready to bate. I flipped. With this issues we are having right now I freaked. We are on the rocks ( no we are not ttc but I am here to support others). I expressed how I felt before but at the moment he emotionally cheated on me. We have been very disconnected lately. I think that hit him. He would never cheat unless we split and got a divorce. I don't mind the porn if its watched together but the masterbating infuriates me. I am more then wanting the extra sex right now. But I guess to each ttheir own just not for us.
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