Scared after a couple of miscarriages.

[GypsyRoseBud]

I have been with my hubby for 3 1/2 years and we tried to conceive a couple of times, but ended up loosing the pregnancy one early in and one when we are almost 5 months and an ectopic pregnancy that required a surgery. So now we are trying again, but with better doctors this time. The last Doctors we had were not so nice and didn't seem to care or want to help me carry a baby to term. I am still terrified and am trying not to worry myself to death over this. I have one daughter 12 who I had no problems at all carrying to full term. But I was also 21, I am now 35 and people keep  telling me that I should just give up :( I'm not ready to give up yet. 

[pedsnurse21]

I am sorry for your losses. I have been in your situation. I am still ttc my first after the losses. People tell me to give up too...also I am 35. But you have to do what is right for you and your hubby. We want a baby so we decided not to tell anyone we are even trying.

[pryn4amiracle]

I am so sorry for your losses. I hope you get a sticky bean very very soon!!

Don't you just hate it when people butt into your life and want to tell you what to do? Ugh...that totally irritates me. As you can see this subject hits a nerve with me, so one more mean comment like this, and I'm gonna blow up...lol. I'm 37 and still ttc #1. If anybody tried to tell me to stop, and just give up, I'd bonk them in the head...lol. No, not really, but I'd probably have a few words for them...

You should def. do what you feel is right for you, and not let anyone influence your desires and dreams. Go for it girl! We're here to support you! Good luck with everything, I hope the new Dr works out for you, and will be much better than the other ones. It's important to have a good Dr. I wish you the best and please KUP!!!

[DACIA79]

I would consider genetic counseling especially if they have different fathers. Hopefully its a problem that can be fixed. Have you tried clomid ?.
Good luck

[xLilBit22]

 sorry for your losses but you shouldnt give up especially if your not ready to.

[AMJsMommie]

 Don't give up. My mom had my little brother when she was 40!! & he's healthy with no complications :)

[Mom2Goldilocks]

I'm sorry ((HUGS)). My last pregnancy ended up in a loss also. All I can do is trust God and have faith that I will have a healthy pregnancy and baby one of these days.

[GypsyRoseBud]

Thank you sooooo much <3 <3 This is what I needed. We go to the doc in a couple of weeks to be tested. My Hubby keeps telling me that I am already pregnant lol, I guess we will see in the 12th. If I am I hope I can carry it to term. 

[krazykiddles]

I completely feel and understand your heartbreak.  I lost ours just entering into the second month just three days ago.  I pray that everything works out for you and that you have a peaceful beginning to your pregnancy and that the sticky bean in the right place goes to term! Blessings and Baby Dust to you and your hubby!

[Jodilegan]

 Don't you give up you follow your heart. I am a mommy of 6 (4 babies here ages 17,16,11 & 18 months) an 2 babies in heaven, 3-2012 & 5-2012 ( currently Mc) I am 36 years old. My step Mom had my lil bro when she was 42.   I too an changing OB's because mt DR took too much of a wait and see approach with my second loss now. YOu go to a new DR, and get a physical, and go from their. But 1 thing you must do is follow your heart, do what you feel is best, no one else knows you and your desires.