I have been with my hubby for 3 1/2 years and we tried to conceive a couple of times, but ended up loosing the pregnancy one early in and one when we are almost 5 months and an ectopic pregnancy that required a surgery. So now we are trying again, but with better doctors this time. The last Doctors we had were not so nice and didn't seem to care or want to help me carry a baby to term. I am still terrified and am trying not to worry myself to death over this. I have one daughter 12 who I had no problems at all carrying to full term. But I was also 21, I am now 35 and people keep telling me that I should just give up :( I'm not ready to give up yet.